Men theoretically know that women have a clitoris that makes them feel good to press against. Some people can even find her. Unfortunately, they often do not know how to caress the clitoris, they crush it, and their partners are far from reaching orgasm. Here is an instruction on how to caress the clitoris so that a woman drifts away from pleasure.

It's not enough to locate the clitoris and caress it, you have to do it sensitively. As sexologist Rebecca Chalker says,clitorisis not a bull's eye or some kind of switch. It is not enough just to snap a snap and that's it. Because this is the only way to make a short circuit. So before you start …

The clitoris - how to find it

Do you even know how to look for this "button", so beautifully called in eastern ars amandi - a pearl in a secret vessel, a shell with a secret, a black pearl? Located at the top of the vulva, above the labia minora, it consists of two cavernous bodies, the glans and the foreskin. When sexually aroused, the cavernous bodies fill with blood and an erection occurs. Because, in fact, the clitoris is very similar to the structure of the penis. The difference is that the penis, besides being a sexual organ, is also part of the urinary system. And the "button" has only a sexual function. In times of strong excitement, it hides under the foreskin. Not in front of the penis, but physiologically. It's just the nature of her.

Clitoris - gentle caress

Ideally, your partner should show you how her clitoris should be caressed. Two famous American researchers of human sexuality, Masters and Johnson, once filmed the behavior of several hundred masturbating women on a videotape.

And it turned out that they generally do not directly caress the glans, but focus on the shaft. This is because the glans is extremely innervated and particularly sensitive to pressure, and therefore requires extremely gentle stimulation. So if you are unsure of the strength of your touch, concentrate on the body of the "button", caressing it left and right. Use simultaneous caress from both sides only when she really enjoys it. Most of the women prefer alternating caresses.

The clitoris - how to caress it

Take your time. And nothing by force. The clitoral caresses should be the last oneforeplay element. Before that, you can gently caress her with your finger through the underwear. You will take off your panties when your partner is wet. Point your fingers, folded like scissors, down her abdomen and massage only her outer labia. You don't have to massage the smaller lips, because stimulated by the larger ones, they will caress the clitoral shaft by themselves. Go deeper and deeper with your fingers, from time to time gently slide them out and rub the tip of the clitoris and the inner lips. You can also slide out completely, moisten your fingertips with some lubricant or even water and dip them into its interior again.

While standing or lying behind your partner, cover the entire pubic mound with your hand. So that your stretched (out) fingers can completely cover it. At the same time, bend your fingertips a little as if you were holding a basketball in your hand. Thus, by not directly stimulating the clitoris, you will stimulate it by stimulating the movement of the labia. You can replace your whole hand with two fingers and slide them down the hill towards the clitoris. Start caressing by sensing the most sensitive spot.

Use one or more fingers to slide over and around her clitoris, drawing eights. Paint not only on her button of pleasure, but also on her smaller lips.

Give her a "compass": straighten her two linked fingers, preferably index and middle fingers, and rub them from top to bottom (north-south) and then sideways (east-west), her entire sphere of pleasure, i.e. the clitoris and the places around it. Now it's time for "three-fingered pleasure": use your index and ring fingers to open her labia, and use your middle finger to gently massage the tip of the "button".

Clitoris - caressing with sex shop toys

For partners who like to experiment and like even stronger stimulation, you can offer to stimulate the clitoris with support. For example, stimulating the clitoris not only with the use of hands or tongue (language in this role is a separate topic, because language in this nature can dance in various ways), but with the participation of gadgets, such as a vibrator or geisha balls. In this way, you can also stimulate the "button" in many ways - through panties, on the naked body, separately or simultaneously with manual stimulation.

If your partner is extremely sensitive in this area, it would be advisable to use lubricant. It's best to buy it in a sex shop, there is the largest selection (flavored, edible, fragrances, etc.)

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