Erection is the inflow of blood to the penis - without it, intercourse is impossible. But what to do when the erection disappears during amorous frolics? Any man can experience sudden loss of erection during intercourse. There are ways to keep an erection that fades when you have sex. What to do when a member withers - here are tips for men and women.

Loss of erection during intercoursehappens quite often. You love each other passionately, now, you are about to come together, when suddenly it's over, his penis withers and begins to slide out of you completely without reason. This isn't the end of the world, but every guy knows he'd rather go underground at a moment like this. Fortunately, there are ways tomaintain an erection.Except that you should both try.

Contents:

  1. What is an erection?
  2. Erection problems - advice for him
  3. Erection problems - advice for her
  4. Erection enhancement erotic toys

What is an erection?

Before starting the specifics, it is worth explaining what an erection is.

Erection , or erection, is an increase in size and stiffening of the penis as a result of the flow of blood into the penis. It contains the so-called cavernous bodies which are almost completely empty when the penis is at rest. When aroused, the nervous system sends a signal to the vascular system to fill the cavernous bodies with blood. Their walls become tense, they increase in volume, which compresses the adjacent veins and prevents the outflow of blood from the penis.

Sometimes, however, the blood drains even when the man is aroused (or he thinks it should be) - as a result, the penis softens, which is often a drama for a man. The most important thing in such a situation is not to panic and tell yourself that it is our fault. Erection problems can happen to any man and can be easily resolved.

Learn how to lose erection during intercourse.

Erection problems - advice for him

1. Quick Action

First of all, don't imagine that you suddenly become impotent. Don't think about why it happened at all, just act. The time will come to look for reasonslater. Now take a deeper breath, embrace your partner tighter and hug her with as much of your body as possible. You can use your situation to stimulate you again.

2. A way to restore an erection - stimulation of the partner's thighs​​

After a momentary standstill, change positions. Lie on your side, facing each other. Place the penis between her thighs, where they are closest to each other. Holding her hips, move them so that her thighs in turn move, rubbing your penis from top to bottom. The heat that is generated at the same time, and above all the change in the method of stimulation, should enliven him enough for you to try to enter it again.

You can roll her over onto her stomach and with the tip of her penis "ride" along the line of her spine, stopping between her buttocks. It is very possible that your penis will be taut at this point. If not, repeat the maneuver, this time from bottom to top.

3. Gynecological position - favoring the recovery of an erection

Place your partner in a gynecological position, supine, preferably on a desk or table. Maximize her legs and stand between her thighs. If she's not already wet at this point, use your hands, tongue, or penis to tease her exposed clitoris until it's moist. Scoop up some of her love juices on your fingers and slowly start masturbating. Then try to insert the penis into the vagina, even when it is not yet tight. You can help yourself with your fingers. And when you get inside, do not make any movements for a moment, because the penis may slide out again. You need time, these several seconds, to calm down emotionally. Most often, the very prolonged contact of the penis with the vagina in such "gynecological" conditions causes an increase in erection. Anyway, you will know perfectly well when to start moving in it.

Erection problems - advice for her

1. Understanding for the partner

You, in turn, should behave in such a way that he does not realize that you have sensed his trouble. Let him think it was just his imagination. Loud disapproval can only worsen the situation and make the man completely despair of his strength.

2. Circular movements

Squeeze his buttocks quite tightly and hold on for a few moments. Then start slowly moving your bottom as if you were making bigger and bigger circles. One way, then the other way. Rub against his penis, but don't try to absorb it. Let him still live his own life. Then, casually, run yours a few timeswith his abdomen against his abdomen, lightly pressing down on the penis. Stop it as you sense your hardness increasing. Then give him the initiative.

3. Position from behind - will help you regain your erection

Ask him to sit on the chair. Sit on him, with your back to his face. And now rotate the pelvis while massaging the testicles with both hands. But don't squeeze them! His penis should also respond to this caress.

4. Needlework

Gently pinch the area between the base of the penis and the anus. This is called prostate site, extremely sensitive, comparable to the legendary G-spot in a woman. It is true that the prostate from the outside is unattainable by touch, but at this point there are points that lead directly to it.

At some point you can try to gently insert your finger into his anus, it will drive him crazy. But, beware, not every man can do this to himself, so experiment very, very carefully. However, once he has a taste of it, he will definitely demand a repeat.

Run your fingernails along his spine, up and down. This caress is often electric on male penises. And if you add damp kisses on the back of the neck, the effect should be sure.

This will be useful to you

Erection enhancement erotic toys

There are erotic gadgets that can help you deal with your erection problems.

  • anal beads - no worries: this is not a gadget intended only for homosexual people. It can also be successfully used by heterosexual men, especially those who have problems maintaining an erection during intercourse. Anal beads worn during sex strongly stimulate the prostate and the muscles surrounding the base of the penis - this strengthens and lengthens the erection. The partner also feels penetration deeper and more pleasant.
  • erection ring - can extend an erection by up to 20 minutes. The principle of its operation is simple: the ring is placed at the base of the penis and thus the gadget limits the outflow of blood from the penis. In addition, the erection ring can be equipped with a clitoral stimulator and vibrations that increase the partner's experience.
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