Oral sex is a technique that can bring her to a boil. Provided the lovers do it correctly. Because oral sex, like any other type of sex, is an art. Even great art and not everyone has to be a master at once. Unless oral sex is "in the genes", but this is extremely rare.
Oral sexis still controversial. Some people love it, others disgust it. Usually, lovers over time, often by trial and error, somehow adjust and get a taste for oral sex. But it is also so that one of the partners is reluctant to show that something is not working out. And they both get tired, pretending it's okay, and the loud moans one of them makes are not groans of pleasure but of pain. So it's worth knowing what are the most common mistakes in this art, so as not to make them.
Oral sex: mistakes women make
- She takes it in her mouth without hiding her teeth under her lips. And they love their best friend the penis so much that they are afraid of biting it off. Yes, men prefer stronger caresses, but sinking teeth into their masculinity is not theirs. Well, unless one of them makes it clear to their partner. So hide your teeth under your lips and embrace your penis with them.
- She holds the penis with very long nails. After all, a moment is enough for the nail to sink into the soft tissue like a dagger. So before you even reach for it, be it with your lips or hands, shorten and file your nails.
- She grabs him in the mouth with a sudden, abrupt movement and grinds him like a sausage. This is a very common mistake women make. Because if you think that he will be in cloud nine from the moment you take his penis in your mouth, then you are completely wrong. Your movements should make sense, so use a variety of techniques to stimulate the penis. Work with your lips, tongue (its smooth surface, side edges), shake your head. Slip it into your mouth once shallow, sometimes deep, sometimes slowly, sometimes quickly.
- Only limited to the penis. Men like to be stimulated comprehensively, just like women. So when you caress his dick, remember about the testicles as well. Take them in your mouth, first one, then another, and maybe you can take two at once. And roll them in your mouth, touching them with your tongue.
- It still limits itself to the same tricks. Every now and then change the technique by 180 or even 360 degrees. For example, surprise him by taking it to your mouth where you are holding an ice cube. Or your mouth is full of yogurt. Or "popping candies." Only then will he have a departure!
- He doesn't really like oral sex, but forces herself to please him. This is a cardinal error. Men aren't exactly as stupid as their women think they are, and they'll figure it out very quickly. And then even the most sophisticated oral sex will not give them pleasure.
Oral sex: mistakes that men make
- He grabs her clitoris too brutally with his teeth. And the pain a woman feels then is indescribable. Remember that the clitoris has twice as many nerve endings as the penis, in a much smaller area. So it does not require such strong stimulation.
- She is limited to only one movement, while her clitoris expects many other treatments - sucking, kissing, brushing her lips and tongue, biting (light!). For example, you can use the tip of your tongue to lift her "button", putting it upright and then take care of it more thoroughly, making her orgasm.
- He only cares about the clitoris, avoiding the adjacent areas. And you have so many options - for example sweep your tongue, along and across, her entire vulva.
- He caresses her painfully, believing that the longer the better. And again not so. Saying that what is too much is unhe althy fits perfectly here. The clitoris, subjected to the pressure of his tongue and lips, turns sore after a while. So if you want to bring her orally to pleasure, warm her up with your mouth, but don't tear her up indefinitely.
- He blows air into her vagina. In this way, you can infect your partner with a urogenital infection. So if you feel the need to exhale deeply, stop caressing for a moment and blow the air outside.
- You have sex with her orally only in one position. And you can do it when she is lying on the table, sitting on a chair, etc. It will be different in each position!