Stigmatized for centuries, today masturbation is considered one of the forms of sexual activity. In many cases, masturbation is recommended by sexologists as one of the treatments for sexual dysfunction in both women and men. But sometimes, however, masturbation can be harmful.
Masturbation( masturbation ) evokes a lot of emotions and is filled with many myths. Contrary to what some people think, masturbation in itself is not bad - on the contrary, it can have many benefits. Problems caused by masturbation occur primarily when the masturbation behavior deviates significantly from typical sexual behavior. And the more they deviate, the greater are the risks of incorrect conditions in the relationship with the partner.
Masturbation - risky behavior
This applies especially to behaviors that threaten he alth and life, e.g. when masturbation uses dangerous tools (rubber bands clamped at the base of the penis, hair, threads, ribbons, inhalation with toxic substances, inserting sharp, oversized tools or irritating substances into the vagina, etc.) or when using dangerous methods (electric stimulation, hanging, putting plastic bags on the head). These types of behavior are usually deeply hidden and sometimes even the partner does not know about them for a long time, and only does not know about them until an accident or illness occurs. often and always under the same circumstances, in the same way, with the same ideas. As a result, it may become conditioned to certain, specific sexual stimuli, and then other stimuli may become less attractive. And even if he or she tries very hard afterwards, it can be difficult to achieve sexual satisfaction.
Masturbation - fear of intimacy
Masturbation preferences can sometimes be an expression of fear of closeness with another person, fear of becoming a lover, and finally they can result from other sexual or emotional disorders - and in such cases such behavior will only aggravate them. So, if the masturbation activity is pathological, homoerotic, or narcissistic, it may or may not bemust, lead to negative, entrenched coded behavior. Abnormal sexual responses may result from such abnormal masturbation behavior. For example, if masturbation is performed with a sense of sin and guilt, it can lead to the perception of all sexuality in this way - that it is something wrong. In turn, masturbating in a hurry, fearing that someone will come in and cover soon, may contribute to ejaculation disorders in men (early and premature ejaculation). The involuntary rapid ejaculation achieved in this way and described by sexologists as a "falsely trained rapid ejaculation reaction by masturbation" may even lead to sexual neurosis in the future.
Masturbation - when cooperation is lacking
Sexologists distinguish a "masturbation orgasm" associated with the beginning, not the later phase of intercourse. Such an orgasm, obtained through masturbation, may contribute to the disturbance of the mutual satisfaction of both partners, while very strong touching of the penis during masturbation may later, during intercourse, give the man a feeling of looseness in the vagina, which will negatively affect his experience. Similarly, female masturbation with a jet of water in the shower can interfere with reaching orgasm with a man.
It is also inadvisable (this is a note for men) to masturbate before … a planned date. This is because each subsequent orgasm is harder to achieve. Is it worth doing yourself well in the face of these threats? Yes, by all means, as long as it is not done too often and masturbation is not the only way to achieve sexual satisfaction. And from time to time it is worth doing it in front of your partner. It's just going to be a departure!