How to please a woman in bed? In fact, for her to be comfortable in the bedroom, she should be horny even before you get to the bottom of it - this is the first and foremost rule of successful sex. It is also known that women take much longer to become sexually aroused than men, so you should start arousing women early enough. Here are 8 tips on how to please your partner in bed.

If you are wonderingwhat excites women the mostand you are looking for a way to please your partner- the answer may surprise you! Knowing the principles of female anatomy is not everything, because in fact, more than the knowledge of technique,building the atmospherecounts. Women are excited by the touch of male hands, but they are able to achieve maximum pleasure when a man finds his way to their… head. Or to be more precise - it will stimulate the imagination and ignite their desire until they want to go all out themselves.

How to please a woman in bed? Follow the steps below and she will definitely find you a great lover.

1. Help at home

Ladies like sex when their heads are not bothered by trouble and when they are refreshed. To keep them relaxed, help with the housework - WITHOUT REMINDING! If you make dinner and wash up after it - you will definitely earn points with your mistress. Especially if you do it quite often and don't always expect sex "in return". Women do not like such obviousness. On the other hand, they like to hear from time to time - "sit back and relax while I do the washing up and then give you a massage." Of course, instead of a massage, it can be something else that makes a woman feel relaxed.

2. Sensitivity in the morning, i.e. heating the atmosphere

You want to have a good evening - start creating a good atmosphere in the morning. Affectionate words whispered in the ear, spicy text messages, kisses or even caresses before work - this is a good introduction to a hot evening. Make your Lady feel adored and desired throughout the day. It ignites passion. Expectation can be an excellent aphrodisiac.

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3. Flowers, chocolates, theater ticket

This jocular "apology kit" also acts as an aphrodisiac. Women like to be gifted -maybe there is an archetypal model in us, in which a male hunter brought home his prey and placed them at the feet of his chosen one? Remember, gifts don't have to be expensive. Sometimes a single rose can arouse desire more than a gold ring. It all depends on how you give the gift. Whether from the heart, expecting nothing in return except a smile and thank you, or are you making it a very obvious "prepayment" for pleasures … The latter is not exciting.

It is also worth remembering that a flower can be used as an erotic gadget, chocolate does not have to be used only for eating (you can make a chocolate massage using special cosmetics with a chocolate note), but also for licking … Instead of a ticket to the theater, you can give the chosen one a ticket to the home cinema, where you will watch an erotic movie (erotic, not pornographic, although there are ladies who also like pornography).

4. Well-groomed body, pleasant smell

Gentlemen, start to smell nice and take care of yourself, and your sex life will benefit from it. Women declare that they are turned on by the sight of a male butt (yes - a butt, not a big sitting in saggy pants) and the smell of a washed male body. Ladies usually have a good sense of smell and like the smell of cleanliness. And although some men like women not to wash themselves before sex, women rarely declare similar preferences.

However, epilation is not required - many ladies are not disturbed by hair "on the chest" or on their hands. However, it makes quite sense to nurture your pubic hair, which doesn't mean you need to shave your testicles and the area around them. However, it is worth making sure that the pubic hair is neat and trimmed quite short and, of course, carefully washed. Among short hair, your penis looks more impressive, and oral sex is much easier …

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5. Kissing and foreplay

Sex is not a fast food dish, for quick consumption. Sometimes, yes, everyone may need to quickly satisfy their hunger or desire, but usually women prefer more sophisticated proposals. And just as a successful meal consists not only of the main course, for a successful sex it is not enough just to have a bed and a partner.

Start with kisses. Women like to be kissed, but not necessarily by someone with oral or digestive problems. Make sure thatyour kisses were just delicious - and not only passionate … Kiss your mistress not only on the lips. The neck, wrists, thighs, and also (or perhaps most importantly) the clitoris are perfect places to kiss. Touch it - gently brush it, massage it, stroke it and … closely observe the reactions.

See: How to caress the clitoris to please a woman?

The female body is very sensitive to touch and it is difficult to create a map of erogenous zones that will suit every lady. However, with high probability (as most women do), your mistress also likes to be kissed and stroked on the neck, breasts, inner arms and thighs. You should discover the rest for yourself, and this journey can be literally delightful … The caresses should be more and more intense, but that does not mean stronger. If you press harder on your breasts or the clitoris, you may get the opposite effect.

6. Contraception / protection

A condom that is used without resistance on your part (even if your partner is using hormonal contraception), especially in the initial stages of the relationship, can have a significant effect on the temperature in the bedroom. Women are more likely to love each other when they are not afraid of getting pregnant or contracting a sexually transmitted disease. A Kinsey Institute study found that while having sex with a condom, women's overall sexual satisfaction was 17.5% higher! It is a lot and therefore it is also worth protecting yourself. If you are worried that the lady will not be sufficiently moistened, use lubricant, but do not give up on a condom.

7. Bedroom well prepared

Sex is nice in a pleasant environment. Clean and nice-smelling bedding, muffled candlelight (perfect if they are fragrant) and a comfortable temperature (cold kills female excitement very effectively) give us a good chance that not only will we be able to excite our partner, but also bring her to orgasm.

8. Make love without competition and desperation

Sex is not a competition or a gymnastic show, so you don't have to try out all the positions you know during one intercourse. Really! In porn movies, of course, sex is practiced in more and more different positions, but you are not playing with your beloved (or even desired) woman in porn? Therefore, choose 2-3 positions in which the clitoris is also stimulated, not just the vagina and the G point located in it. Also, do not be desperate if, despite being caressed, your partner has not reached orgasm. Continuous questions about whether everything is OK and whether you are acting in accordance with her expectations will not make it any easier. Remember thata woman does not always orgasm during intercourse and there is nothing unnatural about it.

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