Sex is an integral part of our lives and it makes no sense to ignore your needs. Nor the partner's needs. How do Poles love each other? Do they like to do it? Do they know everything about sex? Or maybe they are too shy for such confessions? See for yourself.
Intimate letters. Confessions of Poles is the latest book by Bożena Stasiak. For over 15 years, the author has been collecting letters which, week after week, Readers sent to Friday's "Intimacy" in "Super Express". What image of Poles and their sex emerged from the correspondence?
Different! Some people know what they want but can't ask for it. Others have no idea how to go about it. Still others are ashamed of packets of condoms in a purse. Fortunately, the author will advise anyone. And we, as Readers, will have a lot of fun first, and secondly - maybe we'll learn a few things and be masters in this difficult art.
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Oral sex - one couple's problems
I am his next partner and it seems to me that we are very sexually fit - we have a great temperament and we have no inhibitions in bed. We often love each other in French, I really like being caressed this way and I even prefer it to regular intercourse. He's really great at it, and I have a comparison because I've had several partners before. I also like to caress him like that. So where's the problem? I noticed that he probably did not enjoy my caresses as much as I thought. I even asked him about it, and he replied: well, you are not a champion, you should try harder. But is it such a great art to give a guy a blowjob? After all, everyone can do it! (Emilia, 27)
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Most lovers aren't good at oral caresses. They don't know anatomy, and they mostly learn about it from porn movies where everything is exaggerated. One of the experts on the subject, Graham Masterton, repeated that oral sex is a mixture of fulfilled and unfulfilled dreams, exciting experiences and unforgettable visual impressions. But for that to be the case, you need to know that "making a blowjob" is not just about putting it in your mouth and making a few movements with your mouth and tongue.
Most commonoral sex mistakes made by women:
- taking the penis in the mouth without burying the teeth under the lips (this is what men fear the most!). Light bites, more like bites, yes, but also with permission. And when you bite, it's all along the length of the penis, not in one place;
- holding his manhood with manicured but very long nails. If he notices that these lovely fingernails slide down and sink into his soft tissue… brrr;
- grabbing him in the mouth nervously, greedily, as if the woman wanted to eat him. It should be a delicate work of the lips and tongue, and whether faster or slower, shallower or deeper, it should already signal;
- limiting yourself to the penis only. A man likes a woman to stimulate him more comprehensively, embracing and caressing his ancestral jewels as well. Then, or if it works - both the penis and the testicles at the same time;
- repeating the same moves over and over again. You can surprise your partner by using a variety of simple tricks, such as caressing him with your lips that are cool from the ice cube you just sucked on, and then hot from some hot drink.
Oral for the body
According to the principles of reflexology, individual points on the human body are assigned to specific organs and internal organs. This also applies to points located on the genitals, for example, the head of the penis is associated with the lungs and the heart muscle, and the clitoris is assigned to the kidneys. So if you are not yet convinced of French love, and you have a kidney problem, then … you probably know what to do.
The fragment comes from the book Intimate letters. Confessions of Poles, which you can buy in good bookstores.
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