Is it possible to choose so badly in terms of sexual temperament? My husband has always shown little initiative when it comes to sex, but recently he categorically refuses intercourse, even moved to the other room. He has been working a lot in recent days, but there are no erection problems, I don't know what the matter is. He figured it was a punishment? I am getting more aggressive, can this be changed? I feel like my marriage is falling apart. In addition, when I want to talk to him about it, he says that he has no problem, he doesn't want to go to a sexologist either. We are 7 years old, we are 30 years old, and what next? I know she's not cheating on me, but the lack of sex sometimes brings me to the extreme.
Unfortunately, there can be many reasons for your husband's behavior. And I won't find out anything without talking to him about it.
Maybe it's a fear of pregnancy, maybe a hidden need to "punish" you for something, maybe hidden different sexual preferences, or maybe actually small needs? Or maybe he is just not attracted to it; maybe he has another sexual partner / partner?
You could write a book on this subject, but what for? It is the Lady who has to decide what to do with your marriage. Set tough conditions and, in the event of not meeting them, be consistent. It is difficult, but you are only 30 years old. And it's a pity to waste the rest of your life. Yours sincerely.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Beata CiesielskaA specialist sexologist, expert witness. member of the European and Polish Society of Sexual Medicine, Polish Society of Andrology, Association for Good Clinical Research Practice. Admissions at a private office in Łódź (by appointment, tel. 0501 019 578).
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