Losing an erection during intercourse can spoil the atmosphere in the bedroom and severely undermine the male ego. Fortunately, a wise lover knows what to do! How do I get an erection when my partner has lost an erection during penetration or just after putting on a condom? Here are some effective "invigorating" tricks.

Loss of an erection can happen during intercourse, foreplay, or right after your partner has put on a condom. This situation almost always causes embarrassment and a feeling of disappointment, which both sides try to hide with a nervous smile. In an instant, the love frenzy subsides and a hard fight with physiology begins. A couple is hastily looking for an effective way to restore an erection and, finding nothing better, most often opt for oral sex.

Oral caresses may prove to be an effective method of restoring an erection, but for efforts to be effective, they should not be based on brutal sucking or intense hand rubbing. In such a situation, the sensual and sophisticated caresses of all the most sensitive points of male genitalia, especially those that have been overlooked for some reason, are much better.

Caresses are not everything, however. Equally important, and even more important, is how a woman responds. Men find it extremely difficult to bear the moments when their masculinity fails, and the partner's indelicate behavior may only increase this mental discomfort or even lead to the fact that the man loses confidence in himself and becomes discouraged from further intercourse. So, instead of laughing, making biting remarks, or looking at your partner with a smile of pity, it's better to start "resuscitation" right away. How to do it?

Here are the first aid instructions for erection loss during intercourse:

Make a "invigorating kiss"

Take your penis in the middle of its length and put it in your mouth. Gently brush your tongue around the glans, focusing on the part called the crown (a kind of fault separating the head from the shaft). After a while, move on to more intense caresses with the tongue, rubbing the frenulum more strongly. Use your tongue to make both circular movements and quick strokes. When your partner starts to regain his erection, turn the hand tightened on the shaft towards the head. Rub the head intensively, alternating with oral stimulation.

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Stimulate his sensitive points

Simultaneously with oral caresses, you should stimulate erogenous points located in the perineum. Use your fingertips to brush the scrotum and then gently massage the testicles. Move on to perineal stimulation, which is the area between the scrotum and the anus. Halfway through this stretch, you should feel a small dimple (male G-spot). Stimulate them with your finger by pressing with varying intensity. Move your tongue on the underside of the penis all the way to the frenulum - a thin fold of skin that connects the foreskin with the glans. It is a place that is extremely sensitive to touch. Men like to be nudged with the tip of the tongue.

If you like, you can go a little further and do a G-spot massage directly through the anus. The male G-spot is located on the inner wall of the anus, about 5 cm from the sphincter. By inserting your finger and moving it as you would like to summon someone, you have the chance to quickly bring their manhood upright. Remember, however, that stimulating this place is not an ordinary caress and not every man enjoys it. Absolutely do not take this step without your partner's permission.

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Wake him up by rubbing

As a rule, after a series of oral caresses, the erection returns and you can continue intercourse. But what if fellatio has not worked or if the woman does not accept oral sex? In such a situation, the best solution is to use the "stimulation by rubbing" technique.

Get on your partner similarly to the rider position and hold him tightly against his hips. Try rubbing your penis with your clitoris and vulva. You can also do this by taking your penis in your hand and controlling it accordingly. When you partially restore your erection, insert your penis into the vagina and do not make any body movements. Rhythmically tighten your Kegel muscles on your penis. The contractions should be strong and short with a wave-like movement. After a while, you may begin to sway your hips slightly.

Then perform deep thrusts, alternating between rubbing the clitoris against the head of the penis: you thrust with the clenched Kegel muscles, then remove the penis from the vagina and rub it on the clitoris, quickly inserting it back into the vagina. This kind of caress should fully restore the erection. Perform them whenever you notice erection weakness during intercourse.

Change position or place

If your erection loss is caused by insufficient arousal, think about changing your position to one thatwhich will provide you with stronger sensory impressions. You can also change the place where you make love - sometimes having sex in the bathroom, on the kitchen table or in the car can affect your partner's imagination so strongly that losing an erection will absolutely stop him.

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