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Sexual needs of both genders differ. A woman dreams of a long foreplay, a romantic atmosphere and affectionate conversations. Physical stimuli act on the man. He is a visual learner, eg he looks at other women … How to communicate in sex? How to reconcile your sexual needs and enjoy a successful intercourse?
Many conversations with women show that the perfect lover is not Adonis abundantly endowed by nature, but an intelligent, well-kept "boy next door". - He must create a magical atmosphere, have a sense of humor and tact so that I feel like the most beautiful woman. When I feel that he is crazy about me, I will be happy to spend more than one night with him - explains Gosia, a 26-year-old financier. "But the men think it's enough to say my eyes are so blue that I would land me in their arms." And they are surprised when I dismiss their cupids with laughter, but men also need tenderness, reassurances about feelings. And they don't like passive women. - They don't talk about what they want - says 35-year-old Marcin. - If I don't know her likes and dislikes insex , I won't make her feel good. Women are ashamed to talk about their sexual dreams. Then they complain that they haven't had an orgasm for years - gets nervous.
What a man needs to know about sex
- Chivalry still needed. Bringing flowers, chocolates, holding a door, serving a coat, making phone calls during the day are all worthwhile. They show how you care for her, how you think, how much you care for her. Don't underestimate it!
- Your appearance matters, she judges you! Many of you care about your hair (panic fear of baldness) and you don't care about the rest of your body. If you're still wearing stained jeans and a torn T-shirt next to your woman, you'll put her off. Surprise her and dress attractively for once.
- Don't rush! She needs a mood. Men get excited faster than women. Be patient. Remember that not onlyforeplaymatters, but also your daily treatments. Dinner in the city, quiet conversation, intimacy. As much as you are in a hurry, please be patient.
- The clitoris is not a small penis. When a woman touches your dick, it gets hard and ready for action. You think zclitoris is similar? Mistake. Many women do not tolerate touching their clitoris because it hurts them. And don't knead her breasts like dough!
- Don't fall asleep right after… you better hug her! Women take time to get excited and to calm down after intercourse. They get angry when their lover immediately "after" falls asleep. Don't turn your back on her, don't go out (e.g. watch a match), because she'll feel abandoned.
- Promiscuous sex is not always exciting. Many women want to make love traditionally and only with their own husband. They find threesomes, watching erotic movies and dressing up in outfits from sex shops as disgusting.
- Rushing eyes do not bode well for sex. If you're on a date, don't look at other women. This behavior will make her angry, and the chances of having sex will be slim. Women like to be treated exceptionally!
- One, two and it's over. Let her come to orgasm. If you have trouble with this, see a specialist. When a woman is still unsatisfied, it will have an impact on life beyond the sexual sphere.
- Help her home sometimes. When you help your wife change diapers, do the washing and cleaning, it will definitely pay off in the bedroom. Think: she doesn't have the strength to have sex after doing everything.
- Don't be selfish, think about her too. You don't have to get an erection to please your wife. Often, when she feels like you, you try to ignore her taunts. And yet you can give her pleasure by using your fingers, tongue or a vibrator. Don't be selfish! She cannot feel neglected just because you are out of shape. Remember: other times you may need her help. If you have trouble getting an erection, see a specialist. It's better than pretending the problem isn't here!
What a woman needs to know about sex
- No conflicting signals. It's easy to excite a man. On a hot day, you pop into the house and undress on the run. You get rid of shoes, blouse, skirt. You dream of a shower. Meanwhile, for a man, it's a striptease. He feels excited. If you can't communicate, you won't understand that he would want to have sex at this point. You go to take a bath, and he interprets it as "briefing". Once you refresh yourself, your senses begin to wake up as well. However, the man does not want to "float" again. - What's for dinner? - he asks angry.
- Insatiable causes testicular pain. If you excite a man strongly and then change your mind, he will be angry. Not only his ego suffers, but his testicles as well. Erection causes a hormonal storm and real pain.
- Don't save on electricity. Men are excited by visual stimuli. So it's good to show your lover inin full glory. Darkness is safe, but leave the light on sometimes.
- Cooperate with him, be active. Many men speak little (or not at all). They want and prefer to communicate through cooperation (as in a football team). The more you cooperate in your sex, the better you will be able to communicate with each other. Initiate sex, although he has always done so. If necessary, buy a toy or lingerie in a sex shop. Suggest a sexual entertainment program for the next evening, including the positions and places where you will make love.
- You are not in danger of the bunny from "Playboy". Don't you like it when he watches undressed magazines? Remember that your man goes to bed with you, looks at you, loves your body.
- She will not stop looking at others. Men are visual learners. Nothing can stop them from staring greedily at other women. When he stops looking at others, he won't pay any attention to you either.
- Give him a gift for his birthday or anniversary. It's about oral sex (fellatio). While many women don't like it, American sexologists advise you to push yourself over and over and do it to him on an occasion.
- He can't handle sex alone. The way to a man's heart is not through his stomach! Women are wrong when they think that a good dinner will satisfy all his needs and make him happy.
- The older a man gets, the more help he needs. Every man cannot get an erection at some point without being physically stimulated. He will need foreplay sometimes!
- Sex is not the same as love. Most women need affection to get excited, and men don't need to love to have sexual intercourse. If you deny your man sex, he may seek these impressions from another.
Based on the book by Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer"Sex for Dummies"
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