Not everyone decides to have a relationship sexual fidelity. Men from this group, when asked why they cheated, most often start talking about routine in their current relationship and the need for new impressions. However, by observing men who are prone to romance, many inferences can be drawn about their characters and the way they think. Here are the types of guys most likely to cheat.
According to the research of the sexologist prof. Zbigniew Izdebski was once most often betrayed by men aged 40-49, unbelievers, having at least one divorce behind him, the type of adventurer, such as what each subsequent relationship finds unsatisfactory. Cheating, he was looking for an interesting personality, interesting behavior, he was largely influenced by the appearance of his partners.
Today, according to sexologists, men cheat for reasons that have nothing to do with it. Their betrayal is most often the result of unrealistic expectations, inhibitions, and emotional immaturity. Therefore, the following types of male "traitors" can be distinguished:
- Infantile Don Quixote:when he meets a woman, she seems to him to be a princess from a fairy tale. She carries it in her arms, sweeps the pollen from under her feet, is at her every nod. He doesn't even try to find any fault with his princess. She quickly insists on getting married. And shortly after, when the fairy tale turns into an ordinary, often gray life, he starts looking for another princess.
Sexologists therefore advise against getting married after a short acquaintance, because they rarely end well. Especially when he is an incorrigible, immature romantic, still striving for the ideal, unable to compromise.
- Emotional impotent:can't get seriously involved. He defends himself against marriage, but if one manages to drag him down the aisle, he will quickly want to prove that it was a mistake. As a rule, it is a well-positioned young man, looking for confirmation in yet another conquest that it will only become a beautiful ornament for his career, but nothing more.
- Addicted to the "molecule of love":one can become addicted to everything, including phenylethylamine, a substance released during love raptures and called the "moleculelove". Some are genetically programmed to have an abundance of this substance. And if that's what his case is, at some point he'll become addicted to that molecule. And then he will need more and more new excitement, more and more women.
- Avenger:when he does not feel very confident in a relationship, when he thinks that he does not play a dominant role and would like to play the first fiddle he will take revenge for his failures and limitations by treason. He's the type who can't say what he means, so instead of talking, he betrays, thinking that it adds glamor to himself. Sexologists have no doubts - this is the worst reason for cheating of all.
- Eternal boy:can't reject the opportunity. In addition, she believes that sex, most often casual, devoid of feelings, is no betrayal. In this way, they cheat on men who were pampered by their mothers in their childhood. They cheat for entertainment, treating it as a form of great fun. Not infrequently, and the betrayal itself eventually wears them down, but they quickly return to their "playground" and cheat again.
- Aging macho:is a man experiencing a midlife crisis. During this period, he may be particularly prone to affairs, because in this way he wants to prove to himself that he is still macho and remove the fear of old age. And he may even still love you, but fear of impending old age and losing his masculinity pushes him to betrayal. Each new woman, of course younger than you, is a real challenge for him.
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- Sick erotomaniac:is usually a sex addict with a very high concentration of testosterone in the body. Sex is his main source of pleasure, even the goal of life. She quickly gets bored with women. He's just physiologically unable to stay faithful. Even when he tries hard, it doesn't work out. Sometimes such a betrayal needs to be healed.
- Undervalued:in this case the cause, at least to some extent, lies on the part of the partner who does not try to understand or appreciate her partner. He is reluctant to listen to his problems, neglecting him emotionally and sexually. So he seeks consolation in another's bed. If, in addition, you do not take care of yourself, do not respond to his erotic offers, you refuse him sex, do not be surprised that he is inclined to cheat.
And why are they cheating on women? Here the reasons are slightly different, though some types mayseem close. However, this is a separate topic.