Men go to escort agencies because they are missing something. Women use male prostitutes - because they want to have fun. Sex for money is no longer the domain of men - more and more often it is used by women.
Research by psychologists and sociologists leaves no illusions. In the last few years, women have increasingly overtaken men in the field of sex. Growing demands and the need for ever greater stimuli make women less prudish and much more open to new sexual experiences than they used to be. They are no longer afraid to talk about theirerotic fantasiesand their needs. And if their partner can't understand them, they say, "adieu, sweetheart." Affection and attachment are important, but with the current lifestyle,sexand physicality are most important.
Sex for money: for a cybersex snap
Men usually prefer to pay for sex to get what their regular partner doesn't or because of the lack of it. But while in the 1940s, when they chosesex for money , they only dreamed of a classic intercourse, 30 years later came an appetite for oral intercourse, and then for anal sex. As for many years women were, or at least were considered by men, to be secretive, reserved and avoiding too bold gestures, men, instead of frank conversation, preferred to reduce their wallet and pay. Someone who won't be afraid, hesitating, and reckoning.
Romances end badly. A lie has short legs and the wife has a sixth sense that allows her to distinguish a business trip from a lovers' tryst without fail. Men assume that a quick visit to an agency is less of a risk than an office affair. However, it often happens that an exemplary husband and daddy pay for an escort service and then… nothing happens. Because the adrenaline drops somewhere, and the sexual excitement turns out to be zero. The forbidden fruit tastes best, but unlike the boss's wife or the catalog model, the agency beauty is widely available, and thus loses its appeal. The male trip to the agency is not as popular as it used to be. More and more often it is being replaced by the Internet and the possibility of having sex at a distance with the help of webcams. But while gentlemen, this kind of "safe contacts"began to suffice, the ladies felt like much more. In their case, cybersex is only an introduction to the real relationship.
Source: "Hot sex" Tracey Cox, "Unusual sex" Zbigniew Lew-Starowicz
Every fifth Polish woman treats sex without obligations as something completely natural. For many women, this form of satisfaction is much easier than trying to get along with a regular partner, building the mood, and prolonging foreplay. They let go of hacks and fears with a stranger. In the short run, this approach can be more valuable, but if used for too long, it can be frustrating.
Source: SMG / KRC survey
Sex for money: hidden desires
In recent years, women's attitudes to sex have changed dramatically. On the one hand, the fear of unwanted pregnancy (contraception) has decreased, and on the other hand, the stress and overwork that have caused the sexual activity to decline have disappeared. Women not only began to have more time for sex, but their requirements also increased significantly. Officially, about 43 percent. women do not experience orgasm, not so much for anatomical reasons, but because of the inability to get along with their partner. In practice, every third representative of the fair sex has greater or lesser problems with physical satisfaction. And that is why more and more of them are using paid sexual services. Women, just a few years ago only dreaming about sexual excesses with a stranger, or at most timidly cheating on their husbands during business trips, entered the market reserved for men with confidence.
Sex for money: ladies pay more
Competition is unfortunately small, so ladies have to pay almost three times as much for sex as men. According to sexologists, women use erotic services not only because of the lack of a stable partner and a sense of satisfaction, but also to make their erotic fantasies come true, which their partners do not always want to agree to. Now the roles have turned. Group sex, intercourse in a public place, dressing up and a fruity massage - female erotic fantasies know no bounds.
Female erotic fantasies
From the observations of prof. Zbigniew Lew-Starowicz shows that about 60 percent. of women admit to fantasizing, and almost 30 percent already imagines things during intercourse. One of the most common thoughtserotic in women is… rape, bdsm and gang sex. Even the most fantasies do not show a mental illness or masochistic needs, but are only an expression of the eternal desire of a male-male to win a woman. Only that not all men follow such an interpretation. The differences between female and male fantasies are huge. While women dream of having sex with some strange man, they cannot describe him exactly. In the case of men, it is women of flesh and blood - famous actresses, singers or … colleagues from work, and specific parts of the body - buttocks, breasts and legs.