If you have a routine of sex, try light exhibitionism. A few spicy tricks will rekindle the fire in your matrimonial bedroom. You don't have to work any miracles, all you need to do is undress properly …

No, we absolutely do not advocate public exposure ( exhibitionismis one of the most common forms of sexual deviation, involving the satisfaction of public exposure of one's sexual organs). Instead, we want to show how you can introduce some exhibitionist elements into ars amandi. Yes, to add a mole to a sex. Of course, this is only possible if both sides accept and like such experiments.

Sex outside the home

This type of variety is best introduced in the summer, during holidays. And it's definitely not about running barefoot in the park waiting for strangers to arrive. Exhibitionism in the light version is, for example, having sex in places where it has never been done before, e.g. in the bosom of nature. Anyway, Poles, although they do not usually make love outside of bed, inerotic fantasiesabsolutely. In Dureks' research, they declare that they dream of making love in a car, in a park, on the beach, in their own garden, in a public toilet, in a club or at a party.

Unfortunately, often implementing fantasy is quite risky. Love in the car and in your own garden is not such a challenge yet. But it's harder to go all out in a club or park. We strongly advise against public places. The mishap may turn out to be so embarrassing that any experiments will be put aside for a long time. The more that sex in public places may not appeal to the police or the municipal police.

Important

It is commonly believed that only men are exhibitionists. But not only. Exhibitionist tendencies can be seen in some strippers who reach orgasm while exposing their bodies. There are also women who experience orgasms by watching men undress. However, as to whether this is already exhibitionism, the sexologists themselves have doubts.

Sex: the art of undressing

How often do you watch your partner's naked body? Hmm, that's it. Then you don't know what you are missing. Yes, sex under the covers can be exciting at times, buteveryday life is boring. For a change, you can try the fun of revealing the corners of your body in daylight, such as in nature, somewhere on a blanket, do it slowly and seductively. Remember that in order to have something to reveal, you must first take care of the correct aperture. It doesn't have to be just pieces of clothing, but anything that can be put on - jewelry, a belt, a flower in your hair. Take individual fragments one by one, revealing more and more. To make this demonstration more exciting, you can massage, pat or pinch each exposed part of the body at the same time. Or let your partner do it. Do you remember the movie "Nine and a Half Weeks"? You can try similar games with your loved one. Hang a white sheet in the bedroom and illuminate it from underneath with a small lamp. Now perform a striptease against it, so that your partner can only see your figure. Such a game of undressing can be treated as foreplay, but not only - it all depends on your creativity.

Sex in the window and on the balcony

Having sex, for example on a wild beach, is too much of a challenge for most. But that doesn't mean you can't afford mild exhibitionism on a balcony, terrace or even a window. Of course, not in the middle of the day, when life is bustling under the windows. But at night it is different. You can do this with the lights on or off, with the curtains closed or open. It is up to you and your partner. Knowing that others might see you will work like a powerful aphrodisiac. However, we advise against having sex on the windowsill, as it may result in a fall and injury to the spine. However, the position in which she leans out of the window, supporting the sill, and he enters her from behind, is highly recommended. If you decide to have a balcony, have him sit on the chair placed next to the balustrade. So that only the upper body is visible from below. And now she starts acting, giving him, for example, wonderful oral sex. Or by mounting it (the type of position depends on the construction of the balcony, you will certainly be able to afford more when the balcony is well built).

Sex on the stairs

You can reveal more parts of the body in front of your partner, e.g. while climbing the stairs. Spiral stairs are especially suitable for this. You go ahead, shedding your clothes, and your beloved goes behind you, admiring the nakedness and, for example, collecting clothes. And when you are at the top, cling your bodies to each other. The rest of the game should take place right outside the door. If your loved one is dressed, let her undress now and treat yourself to hot sex on the door or onthe floor. Perhaps you will think of not only striptease, but also sex on the stairs (only in your own home). The position, when he enters her on the stairs from the back, is extremely exciting. And even women who don't like to love each other like that are delighted.

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Art of love