Sexual abstinence can be forced by serious illness, the puerperium or the time after surgery. There are days and weeks in the lives of men and women when orgasm is highly inadvisable. But when sex is impossible, there is another way to enjoy intimacy. How to deal with forced sexual abstinence?
Sexual abstinenceis not normal for anyone. We are all made for sex. Without exception, gender, age or skin color does not matter. Usually, our he alth is also irrelevant, as long as it is, of course, satisfactory. There are some ailments and stages in life when sex and experiencing an orgasm are highly inadvisable. Heart disease, high blood pressure, circulatory problems, cancer or the postpartum period: One of the most common problems that affect sex is heart disease. More than once in American movies we have witnessed the death of a man (usually middle-aged) during his climax. In the case of heart disease, coronary heart disease or a heart attack after some time ago, inappropriate and too violent intercourse may lead to irreversible disorders of sexual function, aggravation of the disease, and even death.
sexual abstinence after heart attack
Awareness of the catastrophe makes the "heart" overwhelmed by constant fear. Many of them are afraid to carry out everyday activities, such as, for example, making larger purchases, not to mention the morning light jog. Sex appears to them as a threat in itself. Unfortunately, in most cases they are not oversensitive and their fears are well-founded. After a heart attack, sex is prohibited, at least for the first few weeks. However, if the attending physician agrees that the patient should start intercourse, do not be afraid and do not restrain your arms and legs. Sex is an inherently positive sensation and energy source, not a delay bomb or a suicide bomb. The sooner we return to this pleasure (in accordance with the doctor's recommendations!), The easier we will find ourselves in the new situation. It may turn out that during the break there were serious erection problems.
According to an expertDr. Ruth K. Westheimer, sexologist at Columbia University, USAWhen the he alth of one of the partners is damagedand makes intercourse impossible, some couples swear to each other that they will be together, trying to keep everything as it would on the first day after the wedding. But it's not always that simple. Sometimes a he althy partner simply does not have enough strength, sometimes a crisis results from too high demands and frustration of a person with temporarily limited sexual performance.
Unfortunately, it happens that men become impotent after a heart attack, although from a physical point of view they should still be one hundred percent sexually fit. Fortunately, this does not apply to all "hearts". When it comes to women with circulatory problems, they often develop a more or less advanced form of anorgasmia, i.e. the inability to experience orgasm and the lack of satisfaction with sex.
Problems with sex with heart disease
The best cure for sex anxiety is consultation not only with the attending physician, but also with a psychologist. Perhaps additional tests will be necessary to show whether there are really any contraindications for intercourse. After orgasm, characteristic coronary pain, feelings of anxiety and palpitations can occur, which can lead to panic even in he althy people. In the case of heart problems, it is also important not to have sex when stressed or nervous. This stress relationship will only aggravate it. It is also not allowed to self-medicate, e.g. nitroglycerin, just before intercourse. But you also shouldn't trust an "expert" who says that sex is not the most important thing and that problems will disappear sooner or later. Fear of sex can slow down and hinder the recovery process considerably. Anxiety, frustration and complexes can raise blood pressure and unnecessarily irritate the convalescent. Anxiety and frustration are relieved by masturbation, which slowly prepares you for re-intercourse with your partner, tames the convalescent with his body and allows you to get rid of unnecessary complexes.
Postpartum sex
Masturbation is also the perfect way for "new" moms. Nearly half of women just after giving birth do not want sex at all. Fatigue, lack of sleep and a healing wound in the genital area make sexual intercourse the last thing they want to think about. On the other hand, almost as many have admitted that their craving increases rapidly two weeks after giving birth. The main problem with intimate life concerns the period after which women can return to sex life. They are worried when a month and a half has passed since giving birth, and they are still not ready to make love. Meanwhile, it's perfectly normal becausethe average time that must elapse from childbirth to the beginning of normal sexual intercourse is at least 5-6 weeks. This is more or less the time of puerperium, i.e. the postpartum period, when the body returns to the state it was before pregnancy. During this time, uterine pain and cramps, discharge from the genital tract and pain around the incised perineum may appear. And all this is rather not conducive to close-ups. It may happen that the six weeks have passed and the woman is still bleeding - then you should refrain from intercourse longer. Usually, however, one and a half months after the dissolution, you can enjoy your closeness again.