I have been making love to my boyfriend for over a year and I have never had an orgasm because my boyfriend needs 3-4 minutes. Can something be done about it so that he can take longer?
Hello! 3-4 minutes is the total "norm" by any definition. And most women have an orgasm anyway through the caress of the clitoris, and not the mere frictional movements of the penis in the vagina. So it's best to "teach" the boy how to get you to orgasm this way. What can be done to extend the duration of intercourse? Have intercourse frequently, regularly, using contraception (no intermittent intercourse or calendar). Regards.
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Beata CiesielskaA specialist sexologist, expert witness. member of the European and Polish Society of Sexual Medicine, Polish Society of Andrology, Association for Good Clinical Research Practice. Admissions at a private office in Łódź (by appointment, tel. 0501 019 578).
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