I am a young girl (21 years old) and have a sexual problem. I've been in love for a year, but maybe I haven't gotten to know my body yet because I don't have an orgasm. Often, sex is something normal for me, it does not give me any special pleasure. Is something wrong with me, or is it my partner's fault?
A woman, unlike a man who is already born with the ability to orgasm, has to learn it. You are on the right track, all the sexual experiences you have (the good and the bad ones, unfortunately) are slowly building the "foundations" for this science. Please be spontaneous, enjoy every nice experience and it will get better and better. An important thing is to ensure psychological comfort, i.e. contraception that gives a sense of security, intimacy during intercourse, etc.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Beata CiesielskaA specialist sexologist, expert witness. member of the European and Polish Society of Sexual Medicine, Polish Society of Andrology, Association for Good Clinical Research Practice. Admissions at a private office in Łódź (by appointment, tel. 0501 019 578).
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