Dear Doctor, I weigh about 100 kg. Is it possible for a man to please me for eight years? He says he feels good in bed with me. It is also a fact that I have a very nice face, and a fairly large breasts, and besides, he is not thin either. But when we make love, he doesn't always get a complete erection. Then I think that maybe he already doesn't like me anymore and I'm afraid that he will cheat on me with a thinner woman. I found that when we do it backwards, it's great. I must add that he tells me quite a few times that I am oversensitive. I can't really lose weight drastically right now because we're planning a baby. Maybe I should talk to some specialist?
In love, the most important thing is trust in your partner. If he says that he likes you and has been with you for many years, why don't you believe him? Tastes are not discussed and fashion is irrelevant. Temporary erectile dysfunction is normal, a man is a human, not a sex machine. Or maybe the position from the back is his favorite…. Please stop torturing yourself and enjoy a successful relationship with your beloved man.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Beata CiesielskaA specialist sexologist, expert witness. member of the European and Polish Society of Sexual Medicine, Polish Society of Andrology, Association for Good Clinical Research Practice. Admissions at a private office in Łódź (by appointment, tel. 0501 019 578).
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