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Sex during pregnancy is not recommended when the pregnancy is at an advanced stage or at risk. But that doesn't mean you should give up sex altogether. There are so many other ways to show yourself love! Tenderness, kisses, caresses will compensate you for the lack of sexual intercourse. Check out how to have sex in advanced or threatened pregnancy.
There are no contraindications against havingpregnant sexas long as it is developing properly. However, whenpregnancyisthreatenedor veryadvancedit happens that normal intercourse is impossible for some time. For many men, especially those with a traditional approach to these matters, such necessity amounts to restraint, because they find it difficult to imagine sex without intercourse. Nothing could be more wrong!
Sex without intercourse is pure pleasure
Tenderness and closeness can and must be shown in many ways. Such a change in sexual behavior, forced by circumstances, can be a great opportunity to develop love art by looking for new ways of touching, previously unknown caresses or places on the body of a loved one. Perhaps you will discover sensations that you have not experienced before? Above all, however, it is worth being sensitive in order to show your partner how close and loved he is. This is especially important for both sides now. A woman in advanced pregnancy often feels unattractive and there is no better cure for it than the partner's caressing for her body. Also, a man may at this time - at the end of pregnancy or after childbirth - feel not very well, sidelined, because the most important things are the child and the wife. So it will surely be pleasant for him when the woman tries to compensate for the lack of intercourse with other forms of satisfaction. Because the fact that they will both soon become - or have just become - parents cannot obscure the most important thing: that they are still, first and foremost, a woman and a man, a loving couple.
Sex in pregnancy: caresses without intercourse
People need touch for emotional development and to feel happy. It is one of the most primal and obvious needs and forms of expressing feelings. There are many ways to touch each other: by hugging, stroking,grazing, gentle or stronger rubbing, massaging, kneading, scratching. If you look for the most sensitive places on your partner's body, touching it will be not only pleasant, but can also be a real pleasure for him. Therefore, it is worth looking and trying, observing which caresses give the other party joy, and which are embarrassing or unwelcome. It is difficult to get a detailed instruction here, because sensitivity is an individual matter, but every centimeter of skin is worth caressing. Not only the most obvious places - genitals, women's breasts, the insides of the thighs. In women, almost the entire body is thirsty for touch: shoulders, neck, back, ears, stomach. And the feet? What about caressing temples and fingering hair? Give it a try. The fingertips of a loved one can really work wonders. There are also men who, for example, have such sensitive nipples that rubbing them with your fingers and caressing them with your tongue can even lead to orgasm. And it is certainly not difficult to provide it to a loved one, caressing his manhood with his hands.
ImportantIf your pregnant partner is extremely sensitive to smells, the man must be understanding. An intimate smell is specific and may cause a woman's reluctance. So there is a rule in sex: nothing by force.
Sex during pregnancy: caressing with her lips
Deep, long kisses are the favorite caress of most lovers and an indispensable element of love meetings. They are only possible between people who share a real passion - when they are not, you can quickly sense their artificiality. But kisses aren't just about mouth-to-mouth contact. Lips and tongue are tools with which you can delight your partner by visiting almost all places on his body, if both sides want to. On this tongue-over-skin journey, also remember not only about the "fixed points on the agenda" such as the neck, shoulders, breasts and earlobes. It is also worth a taste of these usually omitted regions. Perhaps kissing the groin, the crease of the elbow, the palm of the hand or the top of the foot will make the partner's body suddenly shudder, which he does not expect at all. And certainly, caressing with the lips and tongue shows complete acceptance and tender devotion. Of course, it concerns the most intimate places, i.e. the genitals. That's why oral sex is so important now that normal intercourse is impossible. And it's not so much technology that counts - although it's always worth training by buying a sexology guide - but a positive attitude to this form of love.
Pregnant sex: surrogate intercourse
You can also try alternative forms of intercourse. The point is to create conditions for the member that would be a substitute for the vagina - that is, during movements toforward and backward, he could perceive the pleasurable stimuli of rubbing. This can be achieved in several ways. In advanced pregnancy, it is a good idea to position when the woman is lying on her side with her legs joined, and the man, at the back, moves a penis between her thighs. It can also be extremely exciting for a man to place his penis between a woman's breasts. This variant can be difficult when the tummy is very large, but women in the puerperium can try it out. A tight "nest of love" can also be created from female hands. Both hands (it is worth moistening them with an intimate gel) need to be put together, entwining the fingers and crossing the thumbs in such a way that there is room for a penis inside. Some guides mention other places, such as armpits or bends of the elbows. There seems to be more fun to it than to relieve sexual tension, but why not try it?
Don't do thatIf there is a risk of premature birth, you cannot caress the nipples of a woman, because it may cause the secretion of oxytocin, which stimulates uterine contractions. Also, manual caresses of the vagina must be very gentle - forget about deep penetration with your fingers.
Sex in pregnancy without intercourse: satisfaction for two
The above-mentioned techniques to replace intercourse are satisfactory primarily for a man, but it must also be admitted that it is the man who is more aggrieved in this situation - for him, a love meeting under normal conditions must end with intercourse. A loving woman understands this and tries to help her partner. A loving man, in turn, should understand what a wife needs. And above all, she needs warmth, tenderness, and the feeling that she is loved and desired. The most important thing is affectionate gestures - hugging, hugging, kissing - and words. It is not without reason that it is said that the most "erogenous zone" of a woman are her ears: each one likes to hear how important she is to her man and what he likes about her. Gentlemen, do not spare your loved ones warm words and gestures - there is never too much of this.
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