They say age doesn't matter when feelings are involved. But when is sex also involved? How to deal with the problems that may await a man who wants to have sex with a younger partner?
In sex it can be different, because, as sexologists agree, over timesexual needsof women increase, while men - decrease (therefore he would be much better the arrangement that she is older than him than the other way around). And although there are exceptions to this rule, if you are already a man in years, you have to take into account the situation that you will not be equal to the task when she expects you to do so.
Before it gets tosex , realize that you have something that a much younger lover doesn't have, such as experience. So you are a man who has lived his life and knows a lot. So you can impress her with your knowledge, or at least interest her at the very beginning. Show her that you take care of yourself, lead a he althy lifestyle, which should undoubtedly favor her, because you know, a he althy guy is a harbinger of good sex.
Also show her that you can dress well. And it's not about expensive, but tasteful clothes. Under no circumstances should you dress like a teenager or you will look like an idiot. Your outfit doesn't have to highlight your age, but neither should it make you laugh. No guy "in years" has turned out to be any good at pretending to be a youth.
Sex with a younger partner - you can be a perfect lover
You probably know that in sex it is not size, but finesse … But what if your best friend does not want to reach any size, but glances down sadly? And there is a way out of such a situation. Assuming, of course, that you want to be the perfect lover (despite your age). And such a lover knows what to do to satisfy a woman. He knows that you don't necessarily need a penis for that. She knows that little tricks can make her feel like a true ars amandi master with you.
Start witherotic massage , from the feet to the hair roots. Use sensual oils for this, e.g. ginger, citrus, vanilla. Ultimately, you can use regular baby oil. Massage gently, changing the strength and direction of your movements. Stay longer at its erogenous points. And if theirsyou do not know them yet, this is a great opportunity to get to know them.
Once you warm it up with your hands, put your lips and tongue in motion. But this time, start at the top. Don't miss the lashes, which, when they are tickled with your wet lips (because the lips must be wet!), Will make her body tremble. Slip your tongue to both nipples that you can suck, lick or bite lightly. Then slide your tongue into her navel and move it back and forth. Then move your lips along the inner surface of her thighs, and finally leave the best - her secret button. Here you can only prove yourself! You will make her the biggest hit by drawing eights on her button, both transverse and longitudinal.
Sex with a younger partner - erection problems
Some men feel immense excitement, caress the woman as they watch her experience bliss. Most of them, however, feel more comfortable seeing their best friend also have something to say here, or rather to show off.
When your lust doesn't match your abilities, use a few tricks to arouse him. Just don't try to force him into her when he is completely resting. Because, firstly, it will not work, and secondly, it will discourage me for a long time, and maybe forever.
Try to gently rub your penis and testicles against her thighs, stomach, buttocks. Let it be something like a massage. If you can get yourself aroused by masturbation, try to do so now. If you have enough confidence in your partner that you know you can put the "case" in her hands, let her take the baton. An experienced lover will probably try to start your bird. He can, for example, trace circles around it with his tongue, he can stimulate the area between the base of the penis and the anus, which is richly innervated and extremely sensitive.
Sex with a younger partner - other ways to deal with erection problems
Well, get some sexologist advice. There are many preparations on the market that target such problems. Perhaps a ginseng cocktail is enough, maybe a bloody steak with a glass of red wine, or maybe some pills. And if it comes to your mind to use sex shop toys, read the instruction manual carefully first. And if, for example, for the ring (tightening, placed at the root of the penis, which is to keep blood in the corpus cavernosum and prevent its outflow) it is written that it must not be worn for more than 30 minutes, then follow the instructions for the second. Because otherwise you can forget not only erection, but also the penis in general.
But first of all, remember the basic rule in this game: you can be a perfect lover at any age,and younger does not always mean better …