New Year's Eve is ahead of us. Use it even if you were to go to the ball alone. It doesn't matter if you are single by choice or your relationship has just ended. Having fun and dancing will relax you and relax you as little as possible. You only need to want. How to have a good time as a single at a prom?
New Year's Eveandcarnivalmay be, contrary to appearances, sometimes a champagne party alsofor a single. A ballroom decorated with garlands, champagne pouring in streams, waiters in tuxedos bowing at the waist and the scent of expensive perfume floating in the air. A crowd of handsome gentlemen in tailor-made tailcoats and ladies in taffeta or organdy dresses chattering alongside them. Write down a paint ball that everyone would like to attend at least once in their life. However, not everyone will have who.
Prom for a single: nothing by force
Men generally do not have a problem with it, and in the case of women, the times when it was not appropriate for them to go out are gone, not to mention night revels. We are in the 21st century, and if anyone tells you that it is not appropriate to go wherever it is appropriate, better be silent once and for all. As emphasized by specialists in the treatment of the soul, it is precisely such erroneous stereotypes that cause the most trouble to the lonely - both by choice and by chance - and are largely the cause of their possible sorrows and sorrows.
Joanna Heidtman, psychologist from the Group Process Research Department of the Institute of Sociology of the Jagiellonian University advises against going to a ball or a large party alone. - Even those in love with their loneliness may feel discomfort in such a situation.
If we do not have anyone to go with, let's join a friendly couple. It is no longer about what is falling out and what is not, but about not being stressed - emphasizes Heidtman.
The single goes to the prom: borrow a partner
Okay, but if you already have an invitation to such a big ball and you really want to go to it, but you miss a partner? There are four options: bribe your brother or cousin, rely on the services of one of the matrimonial offices, agree to a blind date initiated by a colleague from work, go alone.
Singlu! Don't prop up the wall at the ball
And how to behave at a party when all your friends are dancing in the arms of their men, and wedo we support the wall? Over the years we have been told that there is nothing more humiliating for a woman. Who is telling you to prop the wall?
The fast-paced dances are fine by yourself when the slow starts, just go get a drink, watch your host's books or CDs, or pretend you're texting. God forbid, do not hide in the bathroom or stand like a victim in the middle of the room waiting for some kind man to ask you to dance. You will see that just such a totally free attitude will make you attract others like a magnet. The fact that you are of the species of the single ones will only be an advantage.
Golden advice:If you do not have a husband, wife, permanent partner or even a friend who could accompany you to such a ball, and you know that no one of your friends will be there, rather, choose an option: a party with friends, a night at the club or a movie marathon. The ball is meant to be a pleasure, not a torture by propping up the walls. Why prove by force that living alone is the best thing that has happened to you so far? Sure, there are some people who feel great as lone lounge lions, but for most, especially women, the lack of a companion at such a mass event is quite annoying.