If you want to experience unforgettable moments in bed, intensify your current experience or simply experience something new and even more intense, the method is simple. Take one or more of your senses out of the game. Hearing, sight, touch, everything will do.
Remember what a fantastic orgasm you had, already during the foreplay, when he only touched you with his tongue? Or when you made love with your eyes open in the sun? Or when he tied you up and you had no possibility of maneuver, and you had to submit yourself completely to his movements, which you really liked?
Exactly, it was fantastic. But why? Because, as sexologists say, if you turn off one or two of your senses while having sex, your orgasm will be awesome. So, to put it simply, sometimes it is worth limiting certain stimuli in order to be able to double or even triple, or even more, enjoy the others.
First in clothes, then without, cling to each other with the largest possible surface of your body. And so keep still for a moment, enjoying this caress. Then start moving, changing the intensity of the touch. At the same time, run over your partner's skin with your fingertips, stopping at the most sensitive places. The movements you will make with your fingers and hands should be very varied: rotating, sliding, continuous, intermittent, etc.
From touching with your hands, switch to touching with your genitals. He can point the tip of his penis to its erogenous places or gently move it from the collarbones through the neck and nipples, the inside of the thighs to the "button" and the instep of the feet. She, in turn, can rub her nipples against his erogenous points. And if he is more skilled in maneuvering his body, he can do the same with his labia.
On taste and smell
Suck the lobes of your ears, run your nose along your partner's spine, from top to bottom and back several times. Dip your nose in his hair and inhale its scent. Especially women like such a caress. Suck each other's nipples. But beware, it's supposed to be a very, very gentle suck, an almost elusive movement of lips and tongue. And then gently grasp any fragments of your partner's skin with your teeth and caress in this way.
Then, with your lips, taste the skin on her or his belly, from time to time making circles in this placetip of the tongue. Immerse your heads in the most intimate places of your partner. Breathe its scent for a moment, and then let your tongues run wild.
Note: If you are planning a game of smells, make sure that your partner does not reject after the first breath. A clean body is essential. And you don't have to spray yourself with artificial fragrances, the natural smell of a well-groomed body is the basis. One more thing, if you can't help but be artificial anymore, use any intimate fragrances very carefully. Because they often react with the body's natural secretions, giving very unexpected (read: undesirable) effects.
On visual impressions
First some statistics. Well, prof. Zbigniew Lew-Starowicz, based on his own research of a population of 200 men, stated that: men respond most strongly to female genitalia, while the weakest to… the sight of erotic ecstasy on the partner's face, her hair and clothes. On the other hand, for a woman, visual stimuli are much less important, and a sudden visual exposure (e.g. a quick male striptease) in many women can even cause shock. Therefore, in the case of women, do not squander visual stimuli, and combine them with others.
For example perform a sensual striptease in front of her, slowly shedding the clothes. Better yet, ask her to undress you. You both can make sure that in the place of your love struggles there are not enough exciting gadgets ( although you do not have to use them), exciting colors (red), exciting shapes (e.g. phallic).
And gentlemen, don't forget to take your socks off before jumping into bed! This little element can completely rob her of her lust.
On auditory stimuli
In fact, women react more strongly than men to this type of stimuli: to the timbre, tone, pitch of the voice, the content of spoken words. Many men get excited when they hear their partners confess about their sexual experiences, even if it's just sexual fantasies. On the other hand, others, and there is also a large group of them, like a woman screaming loudly during intercourse, often using vulgar terms. On the other hand, women, even if more than one of them would like to swear at each other, suppress such a desire, considering it inappropriate. It turns out wrong.
Because such words, according to prof. Starowicz, are erotic doping. On the other hand, love confessions, affectionate caressing words for men do not matter much, unlike women.
Nevertheless, do not skimp on verbal caresses during the love game and make proper use of them, not only in bed. And it doesn't matter if they are wordscoarse, playful, sophisticated, simple or sophisticated, as long as they achieve the desired effect. But, remember, prof. Starowicz that the word, like touch, requires improvisation, intuition, art!