Me and my boyfriend wanted to start intercourse, it was supposed to be our first time. Unfortunately, he couldn't get in and it didn't work out. I am still a virgin. Let me add that there was no foreplay. We wanted to do it right away. Now I am worried, will I have this problem all the time or am I too tight? I wish that it would finally succeed and that it would come into me.
In order for the penis to enter the vagina, it needs adequate hydration and blood supply. You should start with the foreplay so that you get the right excitement. Thanks to this, the vagina will be properly prepared to insert the penis.
A man usually gets an erection faster than a woman gets vaginal lubrication and thus is ready for intercourse. If it is still not possible to insert the penis, please see a gynecologist to assess the thickness of the hymen. It happens that the membrane is too thick and it needs a gentle incision by a doctor.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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