My partner, despite 25 years old, is a virgin and she is really "tight". During peeting, it hurts to insert two fingers. We tried many ways, but a penis that is not too big (17cm and 14cm in circumference) simply does not fit. We really don't know what to do. Regards
Perhaps your partner suffers from a dysfunction called vaginismus, which consists in involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles, then the impression is that the vagina is too tight and it is impossible to insert a finger, a tampon, let alone intercourse or perform gynecological examination. Often, the contraction of the muscles is accompanied by clenching the thighs, bending the spine, pushing off with your hands. Sometimes it also happens that the hymen is too thick and it is difficult to break it, it causes pain and prevents penetration, then it is removed by the gynecologist. You should first go to the gynecologist to assess whether the structure of the genitals is normal. If your doctor determines that the problem is not due to a too thick hymen or other abnormalities, or if the condition persists despite the removal of the hymen, you should see a sexologist.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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