I have been with my beloved for several years and for a long time there was no problem with her climaxing. She achieved clitoral and vaginal orgasm once within 5 minutes of intercourse, another time within 30 minutes, but she did. For some time I have not known how I tried, exercised, changed tactics, made love for a long time, there is no chance of achieving orgasm. She feels good, but she doesn't feel this growing tension and explosion. I feel that I am in it and that's it. Previously, she achieved everything with and without foreplay … and now nothing … I would like to add that I suspect the erosion surgery for the culprit, because after it she had 2 more orgasms and that's it. But at least the clitoral stimulation should remain … I don't have any big ideas for restoring the beautiful states we experienced earlier: /
The causes of the partner's problem may actually be related to the procedure, possibly also with other abnormalities in the genital area. In addition, it may be affected by certain diseases (including depression, hormonal disorders) and medications (including antidepressants, hormonal drugs). Psychological causes, which are often overlooked, and may have a decisive impact on the problem, should also be excluded - e.g. pain related to the occurrence of erosion could contribute to anxiety, tension, fear of pain before intercourse. The disease was removed, but the anxiety, tension and control of the situation remained. Other psychological factors include any disturbances in the partner relationship. I think it is worth going to a sexologist with this problem, who will carefully gather information from you and determine the cause.
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Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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