I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. Throughout this entire period of time, our intercourse was perfect. We were able to make love up to 5-6 times in one night. For two weeks it has been happening that we make love once, it's perfect for both me and him, but when we want to make love a second time, my boyfriend does not get an erection. We are both very excited, we care a lot about it and then we try a few more times, but after the first intercourse, the next ones fail. I am surprised and worried because these 5 months were perfect and also the first time is always fantastic, so why aren't the next ones coming out? Could this be the cause of some disease?
Two weeks is too short a period to diagnose any disorder, such temporary abnormalities may appear, for example, as a result of stress, deterioration of he alth, exhaustion. Please give yourself time and don't worry too much about it for now, because the stress it brings can only exacerbate the problem. Erectile dysfunction can happen in every, even super he althy man.
Perhaps something is going on in your life that causes your partner to become more stressed, tired, weakened, and so on. If, on the other hand, the situation does not improve for the next month, or it starts to worsen, go to an appointment with a sexologist who will have the opportunity to collect all the information necessary to make a correct diagnosis.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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