I don't know what to do when my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend appears in our company. It irritates me and I don't want to be in this company. I know that he does not feel anything towards her, although he used to be very much in love with her and he was very bad about the breakup, but I feel uncomfortable in her company. Should I accept it and not worry about it? Except it might be difficult for me. If it was his first love, does it somehow affect the future, can he mention a lot about it? Can people come back to people from the past?
Mrs. Marzena!
What you are going through is completely natural and it is probably not worth forcing yourself to accept the situation and not worry. Your boyfriend's relationship with your ex-girlfriend was a fact and nothing can be changed here. However, you can consider what is the most difficult in the current situation. Do you compare yourself to your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend? If so, how and for what? If you imagine that the boy could come back to her, where do these ideas come from? Is it from your imagination, or do you get any signals from his or their behavior? My advice is to use your relationship as a learning opportunity, not as an obligation to get a loved one and keep them close.
Pozdrawiam
Józef Sawicki
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Józef SawickiA specialist in individual therapies with many years of psychotherapeutic experience. In clinical work, she deals with psychotic patients. He is interested in the philosophy of the East. More at www.firma-jaz.pl.
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