We went to the same grade together in high school and then in the 4th grade something sparked, but it didn't spark that completely, because I ran away from it by throwing myself into study. Now, 11 years later, one class meeting was enough and those sparks reappeared. A short conversation was enough, what is your look, smile, etc. And I run away again, but I can't cope anymore. Is it better to give up, experience something wonderful for a while and then suffer, because it is inevitable, or suffer all the time without forgetting that moment?
Hello! Unfortunately, I will not answer this question. I can say what I would do, but I don't think you are interested in that. It is important what you think and what is your hierarchy of values. I also have no idea what it means to "suffer afterwards" and why it is so certain in your situation. Maybe it's not worth suffering, and maybe it's worth it … It depends what kind of suffering it is. And is it just about spending one night together and throwing yourself into the arms of a man at once, or is it about starting a longer romance. Or maybe you would like to create a new, nice relationship … There is not enough unambiguous information in your e-mail. It's always worth experiencing something new and interesting, but sometimes the costs are too high. Is it this time? I don't know that.
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Tatiana Ostaszewska-MosakHe is a clinical he alth psychologist.
Graduated from the Faculty of Psychology at the University of Warsaw.
She has always been particularly interested in the issue of stress and its impact on human functioning.
She uses her knowledge and experience at psycholog.com.pl and at the Fertimedica Fertility Center.
She completed a course in integrative medicine with the world-famous professor Emma Gonikman.
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