Sometimes I am fed up with my whole life. I already ignore stress at school or the fact that the family is clinging to everything. My brother is 18 years old, 2 years older than me. And whatever he wouldn't do: whether he breaks a vase or a glass, or stains his shoes on the carpet, I did all that. "Dear mummy" said that she does not believe me, because I am a liar 50% out of 50% - nice right? I also have a big dream - to go to Finland and maybe even live there. Meet the singer of the rasmus from Finland. I know it's childish, but it's my dream, and dreams can't be put aside just like that. It is said that you have to tell your parents about everything, because they are older, they will know and advise. But not mine. They only laugh at me, that I will probably miss my secondary school-leaving examination, and what kind of studies will I go to. I want to be an actress, I have my own youth theater group, we play in various schools and kindergartens. But I want something more, although I want to appear in an advertisement, but my parents will not sign up for it, I feel my talent, I write poems and songs. Overall, I'm an artist. Only that it was underestimated by the family. Sometimes I have the impression that my parents don't want to report me anywhere because they don't want me to be better than my brother, they don't want my happiness. I am tired of everything, the family should support, not humiliate and slander me. The family should advise, cheer up, show that life is beautiful, that anything else can happen. But not mine. For me, my brother in the family is a great "sacred cow", untouchable, guru … king …
Hello, You say - I want to be someone important in life for myself and others. However, when writing to me, you do not give your name, hiding behind the veil of non-existence. It is as if you are agreeing that you are not worth paying attention to. Maybe the lack of self-confidence makes you hide behind the backs of others, thus taking away the responsibility for your life? With such methods you will not achieve anything, you are already an adult person who should take care of your interests. Show the whole family that you can be a worthy person. Start gaining the necessary knowledge to pass your high school diploma with the best possible result. You write that you want to play in the advertisement, so show your initiative here, find a contact to the appropriate TV station and offer your participation in the advertisement. Learning foreign languages should not be a problem either, because in almost every newspaper you can buy the appropriate CDto learn a foreign language of your choice. As you can see, no one from your family can stop you or forbid you to do anything. It all depends on you - how will you manage your life? Will you go to university, go abroad, or stay in your city? Will your life pass on constant claims to your family, but is it worth it? So get a grip and show everyone that you are a valuable, wise person. Start acting today, from now on and write how you managed to get straight. Fingers crossed. Regards
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Ewa MorawskaMaster of SKHM Seichim and Reiki, energotherapist and healer, life counselor. Reception in Marki (Lisi Jar 12 estate, mobile phone 0 501 076 298)
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