When I make love to my girlfriend, she doesn't feel anything … She feels that the penis is in her vagina, but there is no sensation of it … Is it my fault? She always masturbates her clitoris to make her orgasm, but it seems to me that her orgasm is somehow strange… It's kind of like she's peaked, but only for a moment and doesn't want to continue… She just stops. Is it normal? It is like that every time …

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After orgasm in a woman, as in a man, there is usually a relaxation phase in which you don't feel like having more sexual contact. It is natural. It is also normal that many women do not orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone and need clitoral stimulation to do so.

So you can choose positions during intercourse in which you can stimulate the clitoris with your finger (e.g. "from the back" position), or in which the clitoris will be stimulated during copulatory movements (e.g. classic position, when the woman is lying on her back and the man on it). In this way, both you and your partner can have an orgasm during intercourse.

Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.

Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)

Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.

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