Some time ago I met a cool boy, we started dating, I enjoy talking to him … It started to get more and more serious: first kisses, hugs, but recently I heard something terrible. He told me that his heart would not love me (he is still alive with his old relationship). And his actions speak of something else entirely. I don't know what to do next … Why is he telling me this and is he acting like that? should I continue such a strange acquaintance? I don't want to feel like an object.
Hello! I think the acquaintance can be continued, but be careful. There are relationships that you shouldn't jump into all your head and blindly into at once. Probably one of them. Give each other time to get to know each other, spend time, make friends, get closer. Only after a while will you decide how much you both want to get involved. After all, you don't have to make announcements this month. I know that when it comes to feeling it is difficult to incorporate rationalism because it feels like we are depriving ourselves of something valuable. But … sometimes you have to and it is worth doing.
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Tatiana Ostaszewska-MosakHe is a clinical he alth psychologist.
Graduated from the Faculty of Psychology at the University of Warsaw.
She has always been particularly interested in the issue of stress and its impact on human functioning.
She uses her knowledge and experience at psycholog.com.pl and at the Fertimedica Fertility Center.
She completed a course in integrative medicine with the world-famous professor Emma Gonikman.
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