During petting, I make my boyfriend ejaculate with my hand. Sometimes it's okay, but we had to stop a couple of times because I was causing him pain. I always try to keep my touch from being too strong, so what is it?

During petting the pressure is probably too hard and therefore painful. Your boyfriend should tell you what gives him pleasure and what gives him pain. You may think that you are doing it delicately, yet it is too painful for your partner. I suggest you have an honest conversation about it.

Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.

prof. dr. Barbara Darewicz, MD, PhD

Urologist, sexologist. Reception in Białystok, ul. Święty Rocha 12/14 (appointments can be made by phone 0604 484 014).

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