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Nothing is going well in my life. I am 30 years old and I do not have a satisfying job, a husband. I work physically, and what keeps me there is a contract for a few years and a job in my place of residence. I am afraid to change it, because I can get even worse. Work a bit and be fired. Nobody sees me in this job - others achieve professional successes, and I am still stuck in one place. I am a rather calm person. Nobody wants to be friends with me, I have the impression that I push people away even though I am not an unattractive person. My relationships with men are also not going well. When there is someone I could care for, after some time the boy's interest in me, the relationship ends, as if I could not keep him with me. He is interested in me, and then he seems to give up on me. I attract a little attention with my appearance, but I cannot attract them with my personality. I would like to attract people, not push them away, for some reason. I read books about positive thinking, but I don't feel happy …
Hello,
It is not only the external appearance (the style of dress) that matters, but also the way you move about wearing your figure, which often tells about the state of emotions we are currently in (anger, joy , uncertainty). The face is a mirror of the soul - a visiting card, on which, whether we like it or not, hidden feelings are reflected. It is impossible to "camouflage" the feelings present in us with a nice smile. The energy that we send to others is important because people who meet us for the first time make a decision in a few minutes (even unconsciously) whether to continue their relationship with us. Therefore, it is worth smiling honestly even to yourself and having a lot of optimism, because these feelings are visible not only on the face, but also give elasticity to the whole figure. How can this be achieved? Our personality is shaped by many things, the environment in which we grow up, the ability to find positive moments in our lives. Going to the cinema or theater, meeting interesting and wise people, listening to good music, and the ability to talk to your loved ones - listening to them with interest. All this shapes our way of looking at the world and teaches tolerance. Books that talk about positive thinking will not by themselves change our lives in a "magical" way, you need such a book carefullyread and apply what the author proposes in them. He is definitely writing to pay attention to what thoughts prevail in our head and change negative thinking into positive. Because every thought is the driving force behind all the events in which we participate. Nobody else, only ourselves create what happens to us, so please look into your thoughts and see what dominates there? Fear, sadness, lack of self-confidence? Maybe also such affirmations (thoughts): "I'm sure this boy will leave me", "I'm unattractive" or many other negative statements that, according to your wishes, come true! Please do a little experiment and think only positively for two months, that is, change every "bad" thought into a positive one. You can affirm: "All good flows to me from all sides", "I am an attractive person", "I attract wise and loving men." You can also create similar affirmations yourself and repeat them every day, or even several times a day, with the faith that what we think is coming true. You deserve a beautiful love, so please imagine and describe it in the form of a story, and then read in your free time, so that your dream becomes a reality. I wish you success. Regards
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Ewa MorawskaMaster of SKHM Seichim and Reiki, energotherapist and healer, life counselor. Reception in Marki (Lisi Jar 12 estate, mobile phone 0 501 076 298)
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