I am 20 years old, I had a baby a year ago, it was a mishap. Now, when I have to make love to my husband, despite the double protection (pills plus a condom), I am afraid of pregnancy. Often I just avoid sex.
You have been left with a huge trauma caused by an unplanned pregnancy. As with any "trauma", you need to go to the appropriate specialist. And in your case it is a psychologist - psychotherapist. Nothing will change the fact if I write (because it is true!) That the tablet itself is a sufficient protection, and the negative in this situation is already funny. I apologize for the brutality, but I want you to see that the fear that remains in you is so strong that no rational "advice" can change it. The psychologist is able to help you, please seek his help.
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Beata CiesielskaA specialist sexologist, expert witness. member of the European and Polish Society of Sexual Medicine, Polish Society of Andrology, Association for Good Clinical Research Practice. Admissions at a private office in Łódź (by appointment, tel. 0501 019 578).
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