My boyfriend recently proposed to me. I love him very much. I'd like to spend the rest of my life with him, but in whatever he does, I can find something that will hurt me. I have a grudge all the time, I'm in a bad mood all the time, and I'm upset and depressed. He is a very emotional man. I've always felt more like a friend than a girl. Until the engagement, it didn't bother me. I've talked to him about it many times. It helped for two days, not more. I can't cope anymore with my feelings that are boiling inside me and hurting me terribly. The worst thing is that after every conversation with him I realize that my feelings are unfounded, but the next day it starts all over again.
You have some ambivalent feelings towards your fiancé p.t. "I love and I fear", although there are no grounds for it. You are irritated by his lack of showing affection. There are people, more often men, who don't find it that easy. It's hard! As a result, the lady is charged with bad emotions and reacts, which threatens your relationship. If you can't handle it, please see a psychologist. Regards!
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Tomasz JaroszewskiSecond degree psychiatrist
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