When I start having sex with my wife, I'm aroused, I have an erect penis, everything is fine. After a very short time, the penis drops down and won't get up, even though I feel inner excitement or excitement, I would like to have sex with my wife and my penis doesn't react at all. What could be the reason for this? My wife definitely turns me on - all I have to do is look at her breasts and I would like to make love, but I can't.
Erectile dysfunction in men can result from many different factors. They can be psychogenic, organic or mixed
The first question is whether you are able to maintain an erection while you masturbate. If so, and it disappears only during attempts of sexual intercourse, then erectile dysfunction is with a high probability of psychogenic origin (influence of certain neurotic factors, personality type, sexual preferences, deviant tendencies, conflicts in a relationship, etc.). If you are unable to maintain an erection during masturbation and you do not have spontaneous morning, day or night erections, then biological factors (hormonal disorders, drug effects, past or current comorbidities) may be at stake. The way of life also has a very significant influence on the quality of the erection. The consumed stimulants, especially smoking, lack of sleep, fatigue, excessive stress.
The solution to your problem is to visit a sexologist who, based on more information, will be able to determine the causes and recommend further treatment. Untreated sexual dysfunction has a tendency to persist and deepen, so it is not worth delaying your visit.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Agnieszka ChochołSexologist, psychologist, Solution Focused Therapy therapist, certified ICC coach. He deals with promoting broadly understood sexual he alth as well as providing help and support in the field of sexual and psychological difficulties. She conducts individual therapy and couples therapy. More at: http://sulec-radom.pl/
More advice from this expert
Lack of closeness and willingness to have sex on the part of a partner in a 4-year relationship [Adviceexpert]Lack of an erection: what is its cause and what can be done to get it back? [Expert advice]A woman's pain during intercourse and trust in her partner [Expert's advice]Constant craving for sex in a 20-year-old man [Expert advice]Is anal sex a shame? [Expert advice]18-Year-Old's Sexual Initiation: Does Masturbation Improve Erection? [Expert advice]How can a 30-year-old cope with the loss of an erection during intercourse? [Expert advice]How do you deal with a lack of erection when you're excited? [Expert advice]How to deal with premature ejaculation in a man over 40? [Expert advice]We have been together for 5 years. Recently my partner stopped wanting sex [expert's tip]I have morning erections but no erection [Expert advice]We are 21 years old: why did my partner lose the desire for sex? [Expert advice]Masturbation: where does it come from and can it be stopped? [Expert advice]Penis Enlargement Methods and Relationship Satisfaction [Expert's Advice]My girlfriend doesn't want sex. What can I do? [Expert advice]The husband does not want sex and has lost the will to act [Expert advice]Vaginal urination: is it safe? [Expert advice]Partner does not want sex and is emotionally cold [Expert Advice]The partner does not want to have sex: what can we do? [Expert advice]The first time and problems with erection and ejaculation in an 18-year-old [Expert's advice]Problem with ejaculation after a long erection [Expert advice]Problems in relationships with women and sexual orientation [Expert's advice]Where is the pain that prevents me from having sex with my partner? [Expert advice]Trying for a baby: how to improve the quality of sperm? [Expert advice]Three years of relationship and dissatisfaction with intercourse with your partner [Expert's advice]Increased excitement after years of coldness [Expert's tip]Relationship Commitment and Failure to Ejaculate During Penetration [Expert Advice]Loss of erection during the first intercourse and doubts about the penis length [Expert's advice]Retraction and retraction of the foreskin - the consequences of such problems [Expert's advice]