I met a beautiful woman and had sex several times, unfortunately I didn't even have time to get in when I ejaculated. I am 45 years old, I had sex more than once, the first time was too early, but now it's a disaster - I think I'll lose it. It comes out of me completely unknowingly, I don't even have the satisfaction!

It is commonly believed that premature ejaculation is a problem for young men who are just starting their sex life. However, research and practice show that it affects men of all ages. Your concerns are understandable. Men with premature ejaculation often experience a range of negative feelings that keep them from talking about the problem - depression, embarrassment, lack of confidence, loss of self-esteem, or even avoiding sexual activity. Persistent premature ejaculation can also cause conflicts between partners and often lead to the breakdown of the relationship. Additionally, as a rule, the more a man tries to delay ejaculation, the sooner it occurs (a vicious circle mechanism is created).

Sometimes it is the case that rapid ejaculation occurs in a man who has not had a partner for a long time, or intercourse is rare and irregular. If, however, the problem persists despite the constant partner and regular intercourse, I strongly recommend visiting a sexologist or psychologist-sexologist. It is very important to establish the cause of premature ejaculation. There can be a variety of reasons or psychological factors that make it difficult for you to control the timing of your ejaculation. An experienced specialist in the field of sexology may then recommend psychotherapy and / or pharmacological treatment (effective and tested drugs for this disorder are only prescription). A longer personal conversation is necessary, gathering more information and conducting diagnostic tests.

Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.

Agnieszka Chochoł

Sexologist, psychologist, Solution Focused Therapy therapist, certified ICC coach. He deals with promoting broadly understood sexual he alth and providing help and support in the field of difficultiesof a sexological and psychological nature. She conducts individual therapy and couples therapy. More at: http://sulec-radom.pl/

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