There are many dangers in today's world. There are a lot of addicts. Without knowing it, you can get yourself into something, for example, into captive love. I would like to know what she is, what her causes are and what to do to avoid her.
Unfortunately, I don't quite know what you mean by "captive love". Perhaps you mean "love bondage". It is a colloquial term and can refer to a wide variety of emotional states and behaviors. I have the impression that the basis of your question is a natural internal conflict between the desire to enter into a close emotional relationship and the need to maintain one's independence. It is important to realize that virtually all relationships between people are associated with some form of addiction. It is based on mutual expectations, obligations, and personal desires. And it's okay if they are realistic and fit together. A sense of enslavement arises when the requirements (especially regarding the experienced feelings) towards oneself or a partner are too high and impossible to meet, and at the same time there is no will to give up the illusion that they can be fulfilled after all. Perhaps the very belief that you have to be careful about something in love already enslaves this love.
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Józef SawickiA specialist in individual therapies with many years of psychotherapeutic experience. In clinical work, she deals with psychotic patients. He is interested in the philosophy of the East. More at www.firma-jaz.pl.
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