I almost never want sex. I've never had an orgasm. Sometimes I get excited, but when it comes to getting close to a partner (whom I love) it passes. This is my second partner. It was the same with the first one. I am 28 years old and have two daughters. I had my first sexual contact when I was 15 and I felt excited. Then not anymore. What's wrong with me?
Lack of sexual needs is the most common dysfunction in women. There can be many reasons for this. Most often, these are psychological factors, ranging from those related to upbringing in a family, where sex was a taboo subject or perceived as a sin, something bad, through the use of inappropriate sexual techniques, not talking to a partner about what caresses are pleasing to a woman , ignorance of one's body, right up to the experience of sexual harassment in childhood. Organic factors, such as certain diseases (diabetes, hypertension), hormonal disorders, etc., should also be excluded. However, organic factors are more common in older women. You should visit a sexologist who will collect the necessary information from you, make an appropriate diagnosis and offer treatment.
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Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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