It's coming spring and my Adaś (14) is playing football with the boys on a wild pitch in a nearby park. That's good. His friends use unrefined language during the game and Adaś is also starting to use it more and more often. That `s bad. The ball allows the boys a lot of exercise in the air. It's he althy. The grass on the pitch is trampled and when it gets dry they play in the dreadful dust. It's unhe althy. Should I forbid my son from playing football? Jolka.

No. You shouldn't stop your son from playing soccer. However, you should consider how to counteract evil. After all, you can play football without dust and bad vocabulary.

First of all, talk about it at home. Profanity accompanies us every day, even in the streets. Young people willingly use foul language, adding to their adulthood.

Explain to Adam that he acts like a kid, that a footballer is someone. So he has to take care of the culture and good reputation. Mobilize the fathers of the football brothers to come to the pitch to cheer on and take care of their sons' tongue.

You must also take care of the improvement of the pitch together. If all this is impossible, enroll Adam for training at a football club, where the boys are supervised by an adult coach and the pitch is in a better condition.

Regards. B.

Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.

Barbara Śreniowska-Szafran

Educator with many years of experience.

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