When I was 8 and my cousin was 9, we were having fun jumping on the bed and I sat on his lap and he was jumping and I could feel his dick. It was fun and since then I love to masturbate, I always do it at night or when I view vaginal pictures on the internet. I want to unlearn it, but I don't know how, and the gynecologist is afraid because he supposedly examines it through the anus. I am 13 years old.
Masturbation in adolescence is a developmental behavior, i.e. it can happen at your age and it is not a bad thing if: it is not a very common behavior and you give up other activities if it does not impair your mental well-being ( does not cause malaise), does not hinder relationships with people; it does not prevent you from concentrating on current affairs or, finally, it is not a compulsion to relieve experienced emotions, difficult situations or conflicts - you should not worry.
It can also be disturbing when the activities you do are dangerous to your he alth (cuts, items that may remain in the vagina). You can ask your mother to go to a psychologist with you to talk about what's bothering you. It is also important that you do not watch content on the Internet, TV, etc. that is not intended for people under the age of 18, this content may be a source of psychological stress that you deal with in this way - due to the fact that that they are not intended for a 13-year-old girl due to the lack of maturity, life experiences, readiness, and an appropriate distance to them.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Dominika Ambroziewicz-WnukPsychologist, personal development trainer.
For 20 years she has been working with teenagers, young adults and their carers. Supports people who experience school and relational difficulties, adolescence disorders and teenage parents www.centrum-busola.pl
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