I don't understand this world. Why so much aggression in children? When I was in school, we were nicer to each other. My daughter is still being pushed and beaten. There's a girl in class who kicks everyone. Every few days I hear someone hitting someone on the head with a backpack. If I change my daughter's school, it will be the same? She's only in second grade, and I don't want her to spend her life in such company. Irena.
You must have hit extremely badly. Indeed, there is more aggression than before, but the situation you describe is fortunately not the norm. How children relate to each other at school depends very much on the teachers. Maybe before you change school for your daughter, try to talk to the management, school teacher and tutor. After all, at school someone has to bring up children and ensure their safety. Since teachers do not notice such behavior of their pupils, they should be informed about it. If not only you have such news and not only your daughter is beating, go to school in a group. Collective interventions are more effective. You can see then that it is not a single incident. If eight-year-olds do not know that it is good to help each other, and it is bad to hurt each other, someone has to finally tell them and teach them to live in a group and communicate in a civilized way. Since the family has not yet done it, it must be done by the school. If you decide to change schools anyway, go to the management of the new school first, talk about the reason for the decision and ask for your daughter to be admitted to a class where there are no such problems. Regards. B.
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Barbara Śreniowska-SzafranEducator with many years of experience.
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