There have been unpleasant tensions with my sister for many years, during family gatherings and more. Recently, there has been another unpleasant exchange of views and accusations. Eventually, my sister said at the next family reunion that I should leave her alone and leave her life. Her birthday is approaching and I don't know what to do, of course it's all about wishing her a day. What should I do in such a situation?
What else are quarrels and taunts, such life circumstances as birthdays, holidays, etc. So I advise you to call. But I also advise you to think about what's really going on, since she said you should leave her alone and get out of her life. Perhaps you interfere with them too much? Maybe you judge her unnecessarily, or give "good advice"? You don't write anything about it, so these are my psychological assumptions. Remember the saying that the truth usually lies in the middle? Perhaps, as a birthday present for your sister, analyze your behavior and your various statements. I think it's worth a try. Kind regards. Please, give my sister my heartfelt birthday greetings :)
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Bohdan BielskiPsychologist, specialist with 30 years of experience, trainer of psychosocial skills, expert psychologist of the District Court in Warsaw.
Main areas of activity:mediation services, family counseling, care for a person in a crisis situation, manager training.
First of all, it focuses on building good relationships based on understanding and respect. He undertook numerous crisis interventions and took care of people in a deep crisis.
He lectured in forensic psychology at the Faculty of Psychology of SWPS in Warsaw, at the University of Warsaw and the University of Zielona Góra.
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