How to behave towards a husband who despises me, challenges me, makes fun of my clothes and appearance?
There are several methods - from simple to more complicated. The first is for you to start "mocking" your husband. Comment on his clothes, his figure, his behavior. Ask him later if he is nice and if he wants your life to continue. Maybe something will get to him, because maybe he doesn't realize what he is doing and how sorry you are.
The second method is to find out why your husband is doing this and what he really means. Maybe he is angry with you about something? Maybe you were causing him some trouble and you didn't even notice it? Maybe he feels underrated and unloved? You will examine his motivation and see if he is just a thick-skinned hippo, or maybe he doesn't like him anymore, or maybe he wants to do well, and he turns out terrible?
The third possibility is that if your husband really despises you, humiliates you on purpose, does not love you and wants to hurt you, in my opinion you should consider breaking up. It is a waste of your life to be in such an environment and to prove that you are okay. Without love and mutual respect (or even respect!), There is no good relationship. If you let yourself be fooled around and mistreated, you will soon lose self-respect. And that's not what life is about, right?
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Tatiana Ostaszewska-MosakHe is a clinical he alth psychologist.
Graduated from the Faculty of Psychology at the University of Warsaw.
She has always been particularly interested in the issue of stress and its impact on human functioning.
She uses her knowledge and experience at psycholog.com.pl and at the Fertimedica Fertility Center.
She completed a course in integrative medicine with the world-famous professor Emma Gonikman.
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