My partner is 25 years old and I am his first and only partner. Our problem is that he is sexually hyperactive, i.e. when I refuse to have sex with him, he becomes aggressive, unpredictable, has no self-control, which ends in a forced attempt to rape. He claims that he cannot control himself and does not control behavior. I must add that he is a very calm man. Are there any pharmacological or rather psychological methods to cure him of this ailment? I fear him more and more and the problem grows. I would like to add that we are planning offspring in the future.
Mrs. Partner has serious problems with emotions. The excuse that he cannot control it is unacceptable. If he does not immediately look for a good psychotherapist and start therapy, I do not advise to stay with him for longer, and certainly not to plan children. Aggression will develop and take new forms. This is a serious warning bell! Please take it to heart. Either therapy or I advise you to break up. In Warsaw, I recommend, for example, prof. Z.Lew-Starowicz (at Plac Trzech Krzyży) or dr. Sławomir Jakima (I think you will find contact details on the Internet). Regards
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Beata CiesielskaA specialist sexologist, expert witness. member of the European and Polish Society of Sexual Medicine, Polish Society of Andrology, Association for Good Clinical Research Practice. Admissions at a private office in Łódź (by appointment, tel. 0501 019 578).
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