Sex experience is important to a successful sex life. Knowledge of foreplay, erotic massage or kissing is knowledge that is gained over the years. In addition, thanks to experience, we get to know ourselves, our sexual needs, libido and favorite positions.
You have been working since the beginning of your studies, you chase this bunny, you chase it, but when you catch him by the tail, it turns out that you didn't want it. Because somewhere in all of this, you ran out of space for friends, learning foreign languages, traveling and love. At 30, you realize that you have lessexperienceinsexthan many 18-year-olds. Because instead of trying to love you, you used to sit at the computer until midnight. Sexologists admit that many of the current 30-year-olds have problems in bed due to inexperience.
30-year-old virgin? It is not as unreal as it may seem. There are women who, putting aside the thought of motherhood, also forget about theirsexual needs , such as being closer. They prefer to spend their free time on a beautician or gossip with friends over wine than dating men. And when they finally meet a candidate for a partner, they believe that they have grabbed God by the legs. Because they have no one to compare it with.
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Sex experience - does the number of partners matter?
Should the number of sexual partners be translated into experience, or does its source lie elsewhere, e.g. in the number of sex guides read? The truth is exactly in the middle. Because although doctors do not encourage frequent exchange of partners, on the contrary, you need to get this knowledge from somewhere.
Are the guides enough? Opinions on this subject are divided. Some argue that there is nothing like practice, others are doing quite well based only on theory. It depends on the temperament. Certain techniques or methods of bringing a partner to the boil, such as those described in the Kama Sutra, are not necessary for everyone to be happy. Here, however, women often turn out to be insightful censors. They have their own idealized image of a lover to which they try to match their man at all costs. Even if they didn't have a dozen or so partners before, but only one or two, they'll start them anywaycompare all of them to each other. And then they will point out to the present one what and how he is doing worse. According to the VAMEA Report: "Sexuality of Polish women" shows that the average Polish woman experiences sexual initiation at the age of 18 or more (67%). Prior sexual experience was limited to masturbation and possible meeting with an exhibitionist (13%).
A Polish woman usually has one sexual partner in her life (41%), she is her spouse or permanent partner (43%). The vast majority of married women (86%) do not have extra-marital contacts. On the other hand, men - today's 20-30-year-olds, gained their first experience as 17-year-olds, while in the case of their fathers, the age of initiation was slightly higher. A statistical Pole has about six partners throughout his life. It is not much, but it is enough to know the nature of a woman. As far as you know, of course, how to get down to this nature …