French love is a term for caressing intimate zones with the help of mouth and tongue. This particular type of stimulation causes resistance in some people, but with the right person and in a favorable atmosphere it can give both partners a lot of satisfaction and bring them closer to each other. Learn about the benefits of cultivating French love.

French loveis not accidentally associated with France. The people of this country are widely considered to be ars amandi experts and excellent lovers who willingly introduce sophisticated sexual techniques into their bedrooms.

Todayoral sex , or oral sex, is no longer a novelty and does not arouse such controversy as it was 20 years ago, yet many people still see it as a slightly perverse form of sex . Does French love really require extraordinary skills from lovers? And why is it sometimes difficult to convince yourself of it?

What is French love?

French love is about stimulating your partner's genitals with your mouth and tongue. The range of oral techniques is wide: it can be licking, sucking, pinching, blowing and even nibbling.

  • Fellatio - this term describes the oral caresses of male genitals.
  • Cunnilingus - a term for oral caresses of female intimate zones.

Lovers may treat oral sex as an independent sexual act or as part of the foreplay preparation for traditional intercourse. It is a good form of sex when intercourse is difficult, e.g. during periods.

See also: Sex during period - can it be harmful? How to make love then?

What are the advantages of oral love?

Oral sex expresses the deepest and most intimate bond between two people. They have nothing to hide from them anymore, and they accept their flesh completely. Therefore, French love can contribute to the deepening of the relationship between partners and elevating it to a higher level. They become convinced that they are attractive to the other half and arouse desire.

Oral sex is also an experience that broadens sexual horizons and opens up new sensations. For women who have trouble achieving satisfaction through traditional intercourse, lovefrench can help you reach orgasm.

See also: How to orgasm with a partner and alone?

Why does French love arouse resistance and how to overcome it?

There are several problems that discourage some people (mainly women) from engaging in this type of sexual activity. However, they can be prevented - check how.

  • Unpleasant smell of intimate places

Intimate areas have their own characteristic, quite pungent smell - if we are not fresh after a shower, it may not suit our partner or partner ( although it even excites some).

Advice:have sex in the bath or shower. The intimate scent is then almost imperceptible.

  • Disgust for oral sex

Sometimes your partner may feel a deep aversion to being an active part in oral sex for no apparent reason. Sometimes it takes the size of a phobia. Such a negative attitude towards French love, especially on the part of women, can be explained by the vulgar envelope that usually accompanies talking about oral sex and reducing women to the role of a sexual machine. "Blowjob" is just one of the less sophisticated words for this activity, and there are much more vulgar ones.

Advice:If you are a man and your partner does not know how to engage in oral sex, be as tender as possible in sex and do not talk about this area in terms of a mechanical activity. No woman wants to feel like a sexual toy. Under no circumstances put pressure on her, but try to understand and offer a gradual introduction to this type of sex. Explain to her that you don't require great skill from her, but that you want both of you to experience something new. You can start by making French love in a flavored condom - it's easier for a woman to break up then.

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  • "Degrading" position of a woman

Some women are averse to oral sex because they associate it with submission and submission to male domination. However, it does not have to be this way, because oral sex can be performed in various positions, not only standing.

Advice:make love in French lying down (she's on top of him) or try position 69, where partners simultaneously caress each other's genitals.

See also: How to make love in position 69?

  • Choking

Although the risk of such an accident is small, some women are afraidthat inserting a penis too deep into the throat will cause them to gag or even choke.

Advice:during French love, the woman should put her hand at the base of the penis. This simple trick gives you more control over your intercourse. Also, try not to insert the penis perpendicular to the throat, but towards the cheek.

  • Cum Cum Into Mouth

It's hard to find a woman who would be enthusiastic about "ending" oral intercourse in her mouth. Men like this ending very much, but the taste of their secretions is often repulsive. It is worth emphasizing that there is no obligation for a woman to swallow sperm - oral sex can be satisfactory without this element (even if pornographic films say otherwise).

Advice:nothing by force. If you're a female, advise your partner to let you know when the finale is approaching. You can also feel this moment on your own - the penis just before ejaculation becomes tense and regular contractions run through it. Interestingly, for men, ejaculation, e.g. on the abdomen or breasts, has an equally exciting effect - for some it may be a satisfactory compromise.

See also: SPERMA - composition, taste and influence of male semen on a woman

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"Deep throat"

The French did not contribute to the popularization of French love, despite the name. The American movie "Deep Throat" had the greatest influence on the spread of oral sex. Filmed in 1972, the picture forever changed the customs of Americans and Europeans.

The main character of the film has an interesting defect in her structure - her clitoris is … in the throat. This fact, of course, is an excuse to serve the viewer many oral sex scenes. Although the film premiered a few years after the sexual revolution, it was perceived by contemporary critics as obscene and artistically worthless. Nevertheless, he broke the taboo on French love and made society familiar with this type of sex. It also paved the way for later pornographic and erotic films, which found their way into wider cinema distribution - such as the cult French erotic "Emmanuelle" from 1974.

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