Nobody thinks anymore that anal sex, rough sex, using a vibrator or other sex shop toys are not appropriate for the so-called decent couples. In the sphere of sex, we have become open-minded and curious about new sensations, but additional excitement can have various effects, not always pleasant … Check what to watch out for when introducing new forms of sex into your intimate life.

Sexis for he alth, so don't deny it to yourself. But, on the other hand, don't go to extremes. As in everything, it is worth maintaining moderation in sex. Because sometimes, especially when you love each other without reflection, you can hurt yourself.

Check what to pay attention to in order to enjoy pleasant and safe sex.

Important order - vaginal sex first, then anal sex

If anal sex is not taboo for you and you both enjoy it equally, remember not to have anal sex before vaginal sex. Even in a condom. Why? There are many bacteria in the anus, especially E.coli, which can then be transferred to the vagina. Hence, the road to genitourinary tract infection is not far away. And always wash yourself thoroughly after anal sex, even if you think everything is clean everywhere.

Proper hydration of the vagina and anus

Lack of sufficient lubrication, whether natural or artificial, can cause irritation and inflammation to the external and internal genitals. This applies to both genders. If you don't have any humidifiers on hand, use your own saliva, it's just as effective. Adequatemoisturizingis especially important during anal sex, where it is easier to rub the epidermis. And if it does, you can get help, for example, with B-panthene ointment (if there is no improvement within three days, a visit to the doctor is necessary).

Rough sex

You don't feel like it from time to timerough sexor some experiment? Some handcuffs, smacking on the buttocks, tying with a shawl … Fun can be extremely exciting, but only if you remember about certain safety rules.

And so you can bind in this way so as not to obstruct the blood flow, otherwise it may lead to swelling and even other unpleasant consequences! And don't get tied up with someone you don'tyou know. If you handcuff your partner, try not to lose their key. It's best to keep it in a visible place.

Spanking can multiply the pleasure if you don't give them with flat hands. Hit the bottom of the buttocks, around the thigh, lightly, in a rhythm that suits you best, e.g. two light strokes and one harder strike. Or one light, one strong, two light, one strong …

Vibrator and other sex toys

That you feel like experimenting with sex shop toys is understandable. But choose only those with which you will know what to do (not all have manuals) and follow them as intended. If the erection extension ring can be placed on the penis for no more than 10-20 minutes, then absolutely do not exceed this limit. Because it may turn out later that the penis will not be suitable for sex, because the tissues will die.

Some toys (e.g. edible erotic lingerie) are disposable, others, e.g.vibratorare intended for multiple use. And they require care, in this case - thorough washing after use. If you forget about it, you will surely be reminded of germs that can lead to inflammation, mycosis and even systemic infections.

Risky quickie

Sex boosted by adrenaline, e.g. in a park, in a changing room, in a car, in an elevator - this is what many couples dream about. And usually it is sex that gives and leaves many unforgettable sensations. But during such, usually quick numbers and often with a rather random ground floor, it is easy to forget about a few important things, e.g. a condom. And it is not even about unwanted pregnancy, but about many diseases that you can catch on the occasion. Therefore, just in case, when anticipating such situations, carry a condom with you.

Unfortunately, even the best condoms do not provide 100%. safety in the case of herpes, papillomas or hepatitis B, because they can be in places that are not covered by a condom. Therefore, even quick numbers are safer to cultivate with a regular partner, of whom we are sure of he alth.

Important

At least 25 different types of infections are transmitted sexually. It may be, among others bacterial vaginosis, papillomas, herpes, gonorrhea, trichomoniasis, syphilis, HIV (leading to AIDS), scabies, pubic lice, granulomas, hepatitis B.

Swinging

Some couples, fed up with routine in bed, decide toswinging , i.e. sex with a stranger or several people with the consent of their partner and in hispresence. It is said that many women fantasize about such sex, and men are even more curious about them. It happens that one of the partners persuades the other to swing despite his obvious resistance.

If you both want to try this variety of sex, nothing prevents your fantasy from becoming a reality - swingers clubs now operate in every major city in Poland and ensure anonymity. However, it should be remembered that the effects of swinging are irreversible and can significantly affect relationships in a relationship. In theory, such play may seem like an exciting adventure, but in practice it puts the relationship to the test. One has to accept the sight of a partner having sex with a complete stranger man or woman. Observing his or her excitement and fascination with someone else can create an internal conflict and completely undermine trust in a loved one. After such a breakdown, a relationship is often difficult to rebuild.

If your partner urges you to swing, and you have doubts - it is better to exclude such a possibility. You will probably find it hard to accept the fact that you need to share your loved one with someone else and your relationship will never be the same again.

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