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You think your partner should go crazy with pleasure, because you give your best in sex. Meanwhile, the path to orgasm lengthens, and instead of moans of pleasure, you hear moans of pain. What are the most common mistakes we make in bed? How to make sex pure pleasure?
Whydesirefades away? It happens that, despite even a good theory, practice fails. Or something insexis too much or too little. Or the partner is so goal-focused that he forgets the means.
Sex: mistakes made by men
- Oral sex , colloquially known as French love, gives pleasure to many women. Both when they are passive and active. But, if you haven't been through it yet, don't assume she'll like it and don't make her do it. And by no means by force, e.g. by holding her head. Remember that she should see it herself.
- A quickie is an exciting change, but women usually prefer intercourse to be preceded by foreplay. Also keep this in mind when you feel you can't take it anymore. The more of her during this game, the more you will gain in her eyes.
- The knowledge of erogenous points (i.e. places particularly sensitive to sensations) on the partner's body is a classic of sex. However, if you are unfamiliar with this art, do not feel in the dark, at random, nervously snapping your fingers, just caress it slowly, gently. Remember that the erogenous zones on the body of a woman and a man are not permanent. They can change depending on the situation, partner, age, etc. But some are specific, such as the genitals.
- Its most sensitive place, i.e. the clitoris, is similar to the structure of a penis (it also has a shaft and a glans), but it is much more sensitive. Therefore, when you find her, do not press on her too hard and for too long, because you will hurt your partner. Massage gently, changing the direction and pressure every few seconds.
- Her breasts also need to be gentle. Don't squeeze them, don't pinch the nipples, don't bite them. Handle them as if they were the most delicate rosebuds. This is what the female breasts are called in the eastern ars amandi.
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- Even if you think something like a lion or a tiger might add flavor, it doesn't mean you have to scratch her back until she's bloody, yank her hair, force her to have sex from behind. Unless he clearly lets you know that this is what he expects.
- Don't get too attached to one position that suits you best. Look which one excites her the most. And change, change, change. The variety of movements, also during one intercourse, will make even the classics exciting.
Sex: mistakes made by women
- Do you prefer him to be a more active side? All right, let her try. But don't let him take complete control of himself. Anyway, he can get bored quickly. And do not lie like a log, because no matter how he tried, he may not be up to the task.
- You may already know that he has a special point, just like you have your G-spot. In his case, it is a prostate point that can be stimulated from the outside by massaging the area between the testicles and the anus. Just don't do it unexpectedly, or he may feel threatened. But when he finds out, with your help, the pleasure that comes from here, he will demand repetitions.
- Remember that, contrary to appearances, guys are traditionalists. While he may say that he would like to try in a triangle, he would actually rather avoid it. So don't surprise him with the proposition that you will bring your friend to try the three of them, because he will take it seriously and retreat.
- Don't keep asking if he's okay with you, especially during intercourse. Men are rarely able to do several things at once. When they have sex, they are focused only on this activity. Your questions may distract him and you may hear something you don't want to know at all.
- Don't forget that besides his penis, he also has places where he would like to be caressed. If you can't find them, don't stick your tongue in his ear just because you like it. Just ask what he likes or ask him to show you.
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- Don't do anything just to please him. There will be a moment when he finds out about it - and how will you act then? You can also fake an orgasm only for a while. Better take matters into your own hands and show him what to do so that you both have the same beautiful experiences, not even necessarily at the same time.