Bondage is one way to spice up your sex life. It is tying the partner with scarves and shawls or tying his hands with handcuffs. Such erotic fun can be a great foreplay. Here's a quick guide to bondage, or the school of … bonding.

Contents:

  1. Bondage - accessories
  2. Bondage - how to bind a partner
  3. Bondage - foreplay
  4. Bondage - positions and techniques

Bondage(from English) means to bind, bind. It is a type of sexual contact, involving handcuffing your partner,tyinghim, gagging him, tying him to bed, for example.

In the past, bondage was considered only one of the forms of sadomasochistic contact. Today, of course in the soft version, it's fun. Naturally, only on condition that both partners agree to it. Such frolics can be really exciting. And it's not about wearing a black latex costume, grabbing a whip in your hand and lashing your partner to the first (or the last, whatever you prefer) blood, shouting uncensored words at the same time. This can be a nice but oh-so-spicy variation in ars amandi.

Bondage - accessories

You can improvise and, for example, tie a loved one broken in a frenzy of rapture with a veil. But it's risky. It is better to prepare in advance the things that may be useful. You don't have handcuffs? It doesn't matter, take four scarves (preferably silk or satin ones, because their touch is exciting) and a brush or, even better, a long feather. You can make preparations in front of your partner, which will add spice to your fun.

"Professional" bondage accessories can be found in sex shops. You can choose from:

  • straps and ropes for restraint,
  • gags,
  • leashes and collars,
  • bondage tapes,
  • whips,
  • handcuffs.

You should also establish who is to be tied, i.e. who will be the dominant partner, and who will be the dominant partner. You can, of course, take turns doing it. At the beginning, for example, the woman will be the dominant party.

Important

What to look for in bondage

  • Avoid complicated, even fancy knots
  • Watch your partner's reactions carefully
  • Change the types of stimuli frequently
  • Oftenswitch roles
  • Choose your gadgets carefully, e.g. scarves or shawls, not too long or too bulky

Bondage - how to bind a partner

With the help of caresses, place your beloved on the bed, on the back. Take two of the prepared scarves (they can be shawls) and tie them around the wrists to the bed frame. You can do this in several ways, such as with your arms alongside your body or crossed behind your head. When tying, check the pressure of the knot. It cannot be too weak (the partner, however, must feel a thrill, and he will not feel it if he can untangle himself in a moment), nor too strong (so as not to obstruct the blood flow). Then tie him by the ankles in the same way.

Strongly order him not to move, but to lie still. You can take the game a little further and, for example, order him not only not to move, but also not to make any noise. Because if he squeals, you'll punish him with a slap. You will see that he will like such orders very much.

Bondage - foreplay

Now pick up a pen or a brush. Slowly, sensually move it over the lover's body, lingering longer on his erogenous zones. Or maybe you will discover new places on his erotic body map? Move closer to the most intimate organs, but don't directly tease them. Why? It's easy. He's already so aroused that if you did, he would definitely ejaculate right away. And the fun has only just begun.

Then set your tongue and lips in motion without letting go of the feather. Bite, nibble, suck every nook and cranny of his body. Stay near the penis. You can run your tongue over it a time or two, but if your loved one starts moaning with pleasure, stop. Because it's not the end yet. You still have your biggest ace up your sleeve.

Check: Oral sex - how to caress a penis with your mouth?

Bondage - positions and techniques

End the caresses with a strong accent. For example, sit on it as you do in the rider position. No matter face to face or backwards. As soon as you start rubbing against him with your clitoris, he will certainly try to break free from the bonds. So don't keep him that way any longer. Hop on it in one strong move - and continue swimming together. Or is this a good time to switch roles? Then the fun will last much longer.

See also:

Kama Sutra positions in which the dominant woman is

Male-dominant sexual positions

Swapping roles is also a good time to introduce new elements to the game. What does a demanding domino do? He can, for example, punish his ownspanking partner. Aim them at the bare bottom, which will also result in better blood supply to the buttocks and the surrounding area. Of course, the spanking must not be so strong that it leaves streaks of blood. If you decide to have such fun, it is good to have some fragrant massage oils on hand - so that the spanks smell more sensual. Just be sure not to hit (even lightly!) The kidneys, neck and joints.

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