Mine drinks a lot every day. I'm at the end of my tether. I don't want to hear about treatment. I have become very aggressive towards him, I hate the stench of alcohol at home, I hate to see a drunk man, I do not tolerate drunk people on the bus or anywhere. He unloads himself on his drunk husband more and more often, I'm afraid the worst will happen. Then I cry and regret what I did. Of course, he doesn't remember anything. Is it already a mental illness? Should I be treated by a psychiatrist or a psychologist?
Mrs. Ania!
You are not sick and you do not need to be treated. Of course, it is worth using the help of a psychologist who deals best with addictions. Moreover, I wish that you would finally be able to finally acknowledge your helplessness in the face of what you are struggling with, whatever it may be (alcohol, alcoholism, husband, his feelings, his decisions, something else?).
Pozdrawiam
Józef Sawicki
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Józef SawickiA specialist in individual therapies with many years of psychotherapeutic experience. In clinical work, she deals with psychotic patients. He is interested in the philosophy of the East. More at www.firma-jaz.pl.
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