My husband says he has burned out emotionally and doesn't want to make love. He claims that he loves me, he proposed the so-called white marriage. What should I do? He is very committed to getting to know a man, and I have started to suspect them of something more. He definitely denied it. How do I feel if I'm constantly rejected?
Mrs. Ewa!
I understand that the question "how should I feel" is a rhetorical question. After all, you probably cannot decide that you will be happy when the situation is painful for you. However, you can try not to treat any difficulties or your husband's lack of desire for sex as rejecting you. Perhaps what is most rejecting is the way your husband responds to your expectations. Maybe he feels guilty, maybe he reacts defensively. I advise you to offer your husband a joint visit to a psychotherapist or sexologist. Perhaps it is worthwhile to suspend the problem of sexual intercourse for a while and work on mutual communication, learn to better communicate information about needs, expectations and fears.
Pozdrawiam
Józef Sawicki
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Józef SawickiA specialist in individual therapies with many years of psychotherapeutic experience. In clinical work, she deals with psychotic patients. He is interested in the philosophy of the East. More at www.firma-jaz.pl.
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